- cant move on :(

[Darling.x]

Last week, this guy i had been going out with for the last few months told me that he wasnt ready for a relationship and that he thinks we should break up. We broke up but stayed friends but, it seems that its easier for him to move on instead of me.

I cant move on. He's constantly on my mind and i dont feel whole without him. I really want to get back with him, but it wouldnt be fair on him seeing as he might have moved on a bit and because he wasnt ready for a relationship.

I dont know what to do, i cant get over him, i see him constantly and that doesnt help. I really wish this relationship could be given another chance.

Thanks.

Darling.x

[WillO'Wisp]

Yeah, I understand how it can be hard to move on, but you move on eventually and meet someone even better who will make you forget all about him. I've been through this before, and at this point you want him to be the one but you just have to realize that he isn't, and the sooner you realize this and that it just wasn't meant to be, the easier it'll be for you to move on.
You may not want to completely get over him yet, you want some time to feel sad, which is understandable and completely alright, but eventually you will get to that point where you say enough is enough, and you decide to move on, and you find someone you never even knew would come around. You may at this point not think there's anyone out there better than him, but there is, and he'll come up unexpectedly and you'll forget all about him sooner than you think.
Just try to shut him out of your mind, do things to occupy your mind, hang out with friends and meet some new single people, go and socialize more and more. You may not have time to think about him if you just keep your mind occupied. It'll get better, trust me.

[Supervisor]

yes, its hard but you telling yourself that you CANT get over it is making it worse! First get ride of everything that reminds you of him. Even delete his #. Doing all this will make you not think about him as much but other than that you half to have will power.