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How can I win her back? -
January 21st 2010, 08:58 PM
So, I was dating this girl, and we decided to just be friends around the end of last November...but I didn't exactly feel like "just friends". So, recently, when she started dating another guy I started to have feelings for her again. At first I thought it was just jealousy, but I soon realized that I still love her. The problem is, she doesn't quite feel the same about me... I don't think that I can just be her friend, and I was wondering if anyone on here can give me some advice on how get her to feel the same about me again...
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Re: How can I win her back? -
January 21st 2010, 09:39 PM
Sadly there isn't much you can do to win her back the best thing to do is too give yourself some space from her and avoid contact so you can start moving on.
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January 22nd 2010, 02:34 AM
You can't make her love you. If you're being a nice, supportive friend, and she's still not interested in having a romantic relationship with you... then there's nothing more you can do, except move on. Decide whether or not it's worth being friends with her, and dealing with the pain of seeing her with another man. It's okay to say that you don't want to be friends... many ex-boyfriends/girlfriends simply can't do that, once they've been romantically involved with someone.
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Re: How can I win her back? -
January 22nd 2010, 03:05 AM
Don't allow yourself to become the supportive friend that is there for emotional support, but don't childishly ignore her. Just keep your talks short and simple, and say that you both need to move on.
Make yourself desirable again...whatever she was initially attracted to you for, most likely humor and confidence, rebuild that. In order to get this, you need to actually move on and appear independent. Work out, hair cut, new clothes, whatever. Just make yourself truly independent and attractive again. She probably already has some emotional connection to you, so when she sees that along with your new physical attraction...who knows...  but you can't get her back by groveling and whining....no no no no good luck
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