Really Not Sure Where This Should Go..

[InTheFlood]

Really Not Sure Where I Can Put This. This Seemed Like The Only Logical Place. If Mods Think Its Wrong Feel Free To Move It =]
Soo, Well I Have A Thing For My Teacher. I Know The Whole Nothing Can Happen, Blah Blah
But My Problem is I'm Having Increasingly Dirty Dreams About Him.
I Wouldn't Mind, But Its Making Lessons A Little Hard.
Typically He Does Take Me For Biology, So Yes Every Dirty/Cheesey Thought About 'Practical Tuition' Has Gone Through My Head
Just Wondering If Anyone Has Any Tips For Taking My Mind Off Him?

[Babity]

Hey Amelia,
You know it's perfectly fine for you to think about a teacher like this (I know kinda weird sounding but here me out). I mean our brains can be so crazy and creative and out there sometimes that we just need to let them flow becuase they might be trying to tell us something bigger.
But if in your case these thoughts are wayyy to constant and are affecting your actions and stuff... then there's trouble. Becuase especially in this case, you don't want this to escolate to actually happening cause duh it'd be horrible for the both of you if you were ever caught not to mention to the horrors of what the post relationship would be like.
So if it gets to this point I'd suggest transfering classes. If and only if he's distracting you too much to concentrate.
Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I hope I helped.
Kaila

[TheLittleNinja]

Hey There,

I agree 100% with what Kaila said above me, sometimes our minds work in mysterious ways, and we can be attracted to people that we know we can't be with. I think this may be just a phase for you, and when you meet someone else - possibly nearer your own age, you won't feel attracted to your teacher any more.

I'm not sure about how to get him off your mind, it can be quite difficult to stop ourselves from thinking... I'd suggest, going out with friends, especially guy friends more often? Not sure if that would really work - but it's worth a try.

Also, you seem to know deep down, that you can't be with him, so eventually I think you'll give up. Maybe tell yourself that he is married or has a girlfriend?

I'm sure you'll get over this sooner than you can imagine :]
But like Kaila said, if it gets too bad, or you feel you may act on your feelings then try to move to another class.

Claire x

[InTheFlood]

OK Thanks A Lot Guys.
I Know He Has A Girlfriend So I'll Try And Focus On Other People.