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[Far From Perfect]

(my key 0n my keyb0ard is br0ken s0 i have t0 use the zer0 key instead)



0kay, s0 me and my ex br0ke up like 4 m0nths ag0, but he kept c0ming back saying he missed me and still l0ved me, even when he had an0ther gf. but we g0t in a fight and he hates me n0w, and he said hes d0ne f0rever... and he means it this time.. idk h0w t0 get 0ver him... i l0ve him t00 much... it hurts. iver cried at least 3 times a week, since august (the first time we br0ke up) thats five m0nths. Im just s0 depressed and i miss him s0 much... h0w can u get 0ver an ex u just cant let g0 0f?

[Shayjaggers]

You don't ever have to stop loving them. That's the first mistake people make: thinking they have to stop loving someone just because it's over. If you truly loved them, you won't ever really stop. Maybe it'll fade into a pleasant memory, maybe it will change into a different kind of love.
I've been in this kind of situation before. Not being able to let go. All I can say, is don't try to move on. It will happen on it's own, and you bring yourself unnecessary pain trying to make it go faster. One day out of nowhere, you'll meet this person. And you'll start thinking about them. Wanting to see them. And soon enough, you're in a new loving relationship. I know it sounds impossible right now, but trust me. It will happen.
In the meantime, focus on yourself. Pick a day of the week to pamper yourself. Maybe buy yourself a new outfit. Work to make yourself someone you can be happy with, and soon enough you will have someone else who wants to be happy with you.
I hope this helps =)

[FallenxFromxGrace]

Love is always hard to get over.. I can understand you're going through a rough time.

Though it's over, like Shay said, it doesn't mean you stop loving them. Especially if he was the first guy you ever truly loved. Honestly, it's near impossible to "get over" or stop loving your first love. There's always going to be a part of you that wants him, but time heals wounds, and over time that part of you won't be so dominant.

I would suggest taking a few weeks just to yourself. Focus on you and no one else, don't think about how it's over, think about the happy times you shared together. It helps.

After awhile, put yourself back out there, try it out with someone new. You never know, you might be surprised to find the wonderful guys out there waiting for someone.

Good luck hun, hope I helped. =)
Nicky xx.