Weird Situation.

[TigerTank77]

So, I'm in this weird relationship with a girl that is verbally very sexual, but physically we've done it... once.

I don't like this girl as anything more than friends. She used to be in love with me, but has moved on. So right now we're a friends with benefits kinda thing that rarely end sup in sex.

Now here's the thing. If she got into a relationship, I'd be fine. If she hooked up with someone other than this one guy, it'd be fine.

But thats the problem. It's this one fucking dude. THIS ONE guy, who whenever she mentions him I wanna fucking strangle him. And they hook up... god, at least once a month. I try not to let it show that it bugs me, cause I obviously have no reason for it. I just fucking hate it.

And I've never met this guy. I've only heard about him.

What the fuck is going on in my head?

Forgive me if the spelling and such is off, I'm exhausted.

[iDream]

Are you sure it's just the guy? Like, has she hooked up with anyone else before and it didn't bother you? 'Cause if this is the first guy she's hooked up with then maybe you're jealous on some subconscious level? Either that or maybe something she said about the guy bothered you. You could just be worried for her well being I guess.

[PSY]

Well, ask yourself: what is it about him that you don't like? Does she compare him to you? Does he possess some quality or ability that you wish you had, or that you think is disgusting? Are you feeling protective of her, or are you upset that she hooks up with him/talks about him more than she hooks up with/talks with you?

In the end, try to remember that you're not in a committed relationship with her; therefore, you don't have a say in who she messes around with. If you don't like it, either find someone else, or keep dealing with it as best you can.