Should I Tell Her This?

[TheNumber42]

Originally Posted by JakeSim

What I have been thinking of trying once i get out of my stressful state is to possibly ask her one more time a while from now of she would like to start really slow with stuff like hanging out and occassional dates and stuff. Would this be such a bad idea even with little doubts? Will it make me come to a more decisive answer of what I want? Is this hurting either of us by doing this?

I think that you need to move on from her. Things didn't work out, you hurt her. Move on. By clinging to the idea that you guys may get back together, you are only hurting her and yourself. You can't sit around waiting for someone who may never be ready, and you shouldn't be pressuring her to make a decision or to be in a relationship she doesn't want.

I'm sorry, I know I'm sounding pretty harsh, but you are only hurting yourself, and her, by doing all of this. It's time to move on. You WILL find someone else. And if you and her are meant to be, you will be. Pushing for something to happen is more likely to guarantee that you and her won't ever be together again.