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Exclamation dont know what to do with boys. - March 20th 2010, 10:39 PM

ok i dumped my bf but still am undecided about this other guy. i feel love for him but i was told by my now exbf that he is going to wait for me and hed give me all the time i needed but he still wants to come down for prom which is in less than a month! i think hes expecting me to be back with him by then. what should i do now?


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Re: dont know what to do with boys. - March 20th 2010, 11:00 PM

You should probably tell your Wisconsin boyfriend to get real, because if you don't want to get back together with him, then that's that. No sense in waiting. Maybe you'll want to tell him that you have someone else, maybe not.

I would really urge you to not come crawling back to Wisconsin guy, even if the guy you want to have sex with doesn't work out. You left him for a reason, if you wind up alone for a while, you have to accept that.


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Re: dont know what to do with boys. - March 21st 2010, 06:32 AM

Your exbf was dumped for a reason and treats you like a moron. He views your breakup as an episode of yours, "hed give me all the time i needed" which means he does not take what you say seriously. I wouldn't stand for this arrogance if I were you. I don't know all the details (like why you broke up) so I'm working with what I have.
   
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Re: dont know what to do with boys. - March 22nd 2010, 01:56 AM

Does your ex-boyfriend know about your previous sexual relationship with this other guy? If he doesn't have the full story, then it's understandable that he would try to "win you back", after dating you for 5 years. If he DOES have the full story, then it could be that he's in denial or shock. Either way, you need to be firm with your ex-boyfriend. If that means being completely honest with him, then so be it.




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Re: dont know what to do with boys. - March 22nd 2010, 03:04 AM

my ex knows the whole story. and yes he still wants me cause of his 'unconditinal love' for me.


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