Is he leading me on?

[chanelxo]

Ok so i knew this guy for about 3 years now,but we only talked on myspace not in person at the skatepark we go to which is where we met.But anyways about 5 days ago we started texting and he told me he thought i never wanted to talk to him because i thought he was lame,and i told him that wasn't true etc,so we hung out all day yesterday and he only went to the park because i said i was going we talked and laughed i thought we had a fun time.He texted me when we left saying "it was nice talking to you (:" and i told him if he was gonna be on a live gaming thing we play which he hates but got on to play with me.When we did play he was saying how annoying this girl was being texting him and kept saying this other girl he was gonna meet up with,i thought he was saying that to get me jealous? idk.And when i look at his facebook he always writes on girls pictures saying "you're so cute" but never to me.Which i don't mind since he isn't my bf,he also hasn't texted me today :/

but theres more i could put but i'm typing too much sorry! i'm just confused.

[iDream]

Sounds like he sees you as a friend. Most people don't realize, but there is such a thing as platonic guy-girl relationships. lol! Just be his friend, there's nothing wrong with that. :]

[chanelxo]

yeah i guess so,i'll just leave him alone.

[EightEleven91]

Originally Posted by chanelxo

yeah i guess so,i'll just leave him alone.

Leave him alone? If you're gunna be his friend dont just 'leave him alone' and throw him to the side and never talk to the poor lad again.
Just talk to him normally and be friends.

[Black Rose]

i think you shoul try being just friends for a while and see how it goes.

[chanelxo]

I just never wanna be "just friends" if he constantly talks to other girls and it gets me upset because i liked him for 3 years and just now when i think hey we might be a couple now and i get happy,he just lets me down.

[Black Rose]

oh im sorry. i wish i knew more of what to do
im only an ignorant 17 year old who cant even figure out who she likes.
sorry.

[chanelxo]

It's okay,you helped

[Black Rose]

thanks. ive never really been of any help to any one.

[chanelxo]

Don't say that you are,i think you are right i'll just try and be friends with him and if it turns into more then great if not then oh well.

[iDream]

You didn't say you liked him for 3 years, only that you talked to him for that long. :c That sucks, I'm sorry! I know what it's like to be "friend-zoned" by someone you've liked for a while. If you want to still be his friend, then I'd suggest trying to get over the crush somehow. Unfortunately the best way to do that is to avoid all contact with the person for a while and do your own thing.

But if, like you said, you don't want to be "just friends" with him, depending on how good of friends you really are, if I were you I'd try to talk it out with him. But that's only if you two have actually been close friends for this three year time, and not just a crush from afar or something like that.

Good luck!

[chanelxo]

Well idk if for sure he just sees me as a friend,before we met up he said in a text "start of a beautiful friendship? i think so<3"i said back "just a friendship geez lol" and he wrote back saying "you know what i mean " so i'm just confused.I mean he did tell me he never talked to me in person for that long because he thought,i thought he was lame.So like some guys i asked they said well why don't you text him maybe he thinks you don't wanna talk to him? i'm gonna text him later today and see what is up.

[chanelxo]

And he would send me alot flirty text messages before we met up.

[TheNumber42]

I think you should just try to be friends with him for now, be a bit flirty and see what he does. It may just be that he likes you as a friend and that's it. I know it sucks to be in that position, but it's going to happen sometimes. If it turns out that is the case, just do your best to move on. I was in the same place, and when I was able to move on myself, I ended up finding someone who I liked a whole lot better and am still with. I'm sure you could do the same. And don't forget there's nothing wrong being single. You can still have a lot of fun that way =]

Hope it all goes well for you. PM me if you need anything.

[iDream]

The only way to really know if he likes you or not is to ask him. There is not one person on this site that can tell you his intentions and how he feels about you, unless he has an account here. The point is, you need to talk to him about this if you want a true answer.

[chanelxo]

thanks alot everyone,and i will ask him soon maybe next time we hang out.