Fuck. This. Shit.

[Annia]

U moved to this town about a year ago. I don't fit in as well here as I did in my last town. I guess i'm pretty, but not sexy or anything. I'm thin, and have larger than average boobs that I absolutly hate. It's been a rough year here, but finally i met someone who I'm crazy about! he was awesome, he was so nice and not like any other pervy guy i've dated. we\re seeing each other for the past month and a bit, kinda, like we've been going to see movies at his place and stuff with our two other frieneds who are dating, but we're not really dating. anyway, last night we went to our friend's house, and had pizza and stuff. we ran out of cheese so the guy went to the co-op. when they got back we all wtched a movie and me and him cuddled. but he put his hand on my boob. he's never done that before! we were holding hands, so i tried to subtly move it, thinking he wasn't consciously feeling up my boob. but he wouldn't move. he grabbed my ass too! and i was really shocked, because that wasn't like him at all. the nect moring i found out that some guys who worked at the co op told him to sneak a feel of my tits, and he did. just like that. im so confused right now... hes usualy yhe sweetest guy ever but u just dont know what to think.

[Annia]

oh, and i tried to ask him about it between classes, but he blew me off. he seems to care more about his friends and tha'ts always bothered me. he barely talks to me in school...

[DanielR]

Short answer: Ditch him. He sounds like a drop kick...

Long answer: He sounds like the type that plays to impress his mates... and that will always end up against you. A man can have friends of course, but when their mates run their lives... totally different story all together.
So... I'd show him the door, or at least tell him to grow up.

[DeadlySin]

I agree with Daniel.
He's not worth it, forget him.
Some guys are like that, they put up a sugar wall until you break it down he's just a typical guy. It is usually the sad truth.
And it seems like he just showed the other side of his sweet wall.
I wouldn't stay with him. It's probably not worth it.

[xXbrooke13Xx]

ditch him, sounds like he's just in it to impress his friends and do what they say he should. hes a follower, not a leader from the sounds of it and he's using you to impress his friends, im sorry hun, but he's a dick. just ditch him and move on and all the advice i can come up with right now.

~Brookie/Brooke

[Lu82]

Not worth it, a waste of time. Theres plenty of guys out there that would value you.

[Pour the Teapot]

that dude sounds like a jerk! you don't deserve to be violated like that and he shouldn't have listened to those friends. when a guy would rather do what his friends say, than respect you, then he doesn't deserve to have you as a girlfriend.

[Jacksonian]

Sorry for what you went through. But just be careful as some people are wolves in sheep clothing. And everyone has a good and bad side. And sometimes we meet some people who are good but also corruptible. Do you like this guy and willing to give him another chance, then talk to him and ask him if he wants to go out with you, and if he wants and you are also willing to give him a second chance, then go ahead but warn him that if he doesn't respect you, then there is no use in even going ahead with a relationship at all.

NB : Remember that alot of guys are weak. So give him sometime if you are willing to get back his self-control.

Oh, I just read your second post, so forget this guy. He is not worth a second of your time. Sorry for that Annia.

[Pheonix]

Wow, he sounds like a jerk. You tried to move his hand and he wouldn't? That is creepy. He groped you because his friends said to? I agree with everyone else. He sounds like a major pig who needs to grow up and respect other people. If he liked you for more than your assets*, why would he be blowing you off in school? I'd be done with any guy who treated me as a mere piece of ass that he can ignore at will. He sounds like a wicked schmuck. Ditch him until he grows a mind of his own.

[Katara]

I think Daniel's got the right idea here, a stern wake-up call is required, you never know if you show him the door he may surprise you, hope things work out