I asked him out, now I am freaking out.

Unsure · **I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 6th 2010, 04:47 AM

So I asked out this guy. I said "do you wanna go out sometime?" he said "Like when?" I said it was up to him because he has a work schedule at work, mine is self scheduled. Anyway he said he would let me know when he was free and that he "would like to go do something". And I think I am just being paranoid and over thinking it but.. he knows its a date right? Because we have been friends for like 2 years and I am just a little worried he might have misunderstood. It will be my very first date so I am just really nervous. Any advice?

jelli1224 · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 6th 2010, 05:13 AM

Of course he knows it is a date! I dont think there is anything to worry about. If you have known him for that long. Have fun and feel free to PM me and tell me how it goes!!!!

Unsure · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 6th 2010, 05:55 AM

Ok. I am just super nervous, I have never been on a date in my life and I really like him. I tend to over think things anyway, especially when it comes to boys.

Katara · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 6th 2010, 11:32 AM

Don't we all, its why we're on a forum like this

Good luck and enjoy yourself!

Lu82 · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 7th 2010, 01:18 AM

I bet he knows its a date.
Have fun and good luck

savealife723 · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 7th 2010, 01:42 AM

I bet he knows it's a date (:
Just relax and calm down (:
It's going to be great I bet!
Let us know how it goes when you two go.

Good Luck!

Unsure · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 17th 2010, 11:10 PM

We went to a movie, nothing happened. Then the next day he asked one of my friends "does she like me or something?"

Pour the Teapot · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 18th 2010, 12:49 AM

well, maybe it's best to take things slow for now. perhaps he'd rather stay just friends.

Unsure · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 18th 2010, 02:27 AM

Yeah that's what every guy wants, just to be friends with me, nothing more. I was like 99.999999% sure that it was different this time. I wish I could just learn not to have feelings for guys, it never goes well.

Sonofalich · **Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. -** April 18th 2010, 03:16 AM

To be fair to the guy he was probably confused.

I disagree with all the above posters, from what you said it was not obvious at all it was a date if you said that you'd been friends for 2 years and you said "wanna go out sometime?"

That's not obvious at all... If you asked me that and I'd been your friend. I'd be like sure lets hang out, thinking in my head that you were wanting just to go out as friends.

If you want something, dont beat around the bush. Be blunt, be brutal, be honest. But most importantly be true to yourself.

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jelli1224 Offline Feel free to PM me! Regular TeenHelper ***** Name: Angelica Gender: Female Posts: 374 Join Date: April 2nd 2010	Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. - April 6th 2010, 05:13 AM Of course he knows it is a date! I dont think there is anything to worry about. If you have known him for that long. Have fun and feel free to PM me and tell me how it goes!!!!

Unsure Offline Member Average Joe *** Name: April Age: 20 Gender: Female Posts: 135 Join Date: September 10th 2009	Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. - April 6th 2010, 05:55 AM Ok. I am just super nervous, I have never been on a date in my life and I really like him. I tend to over think things anyway, especially when it comes to boys.

Katara Offline Member Not a n00b ** Name: Nick Age: 21 Gender: Male Location: My computer... In Dundee Posts: 63 Join Date: October 18th 2009	Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. - April 6th 2010, 11:32 AM Don't we all, its why we're on a forum like this Good luck and enjoy yourself! Hope is the first step on the road to disappointment...

Lu82 Offline HI EVERYONE! Experienced TeenHelper ****** Name: Lucy Gender: Female Location: inbetween Posts: 631 Join Date: March 27th 2010	Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. - April 7th 2010, 01:18 AM I bet he knows its a date. Have fun and good luck

savealife723 Offline i'll always need you. I've been here a while ******** Name: Kaylaaa<3. Age: 17 Gender: girly girl (: Location: LaLaLand, Washington! Posts: 1,741 Join Date: April 21st 2009	Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. - April 7th 2010, 01:42 AM I bet he knows it's a date (: Just relax and calm down (: It's going to be great I bet! Let us know how it goes when you two go. Good Luck! I might be crazy. But have I told you lately that I love you? You're the only reason that I'm not afraid to fly. <3

Pour the Teapot Offline Train whistles and cicadas Senior TeenHelper ******* Name: Chloe Age: 15 Gender: Female Location: Happy Posts: 764 Join Date: January 7th 2009	Re: I asked him out, now I am freaking out. - April 18th 2010, 12:49 AM well, maybe it's best to take things slow for now. perhaps he'd rather stay just friends.

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