Know a guy is interested, yet he doesn't make any contact?

[-thesolitaryone-]

I have been going to this club for years, but because I left the city and moved across the country, I now love it a whole lot more. On my holiday home I literally went there 6 times. Good music etc.

THere is a band which plays on Saturday nights. THey're awesome. But the lead singer mixes for other bands on Wednesdays and THursdays, so I see him there alot.

Now, before I had even met him, I noticed the first night I went to this club on my holiday a few weeks ago that he was staring. Like massively staring; his eyes would follow me and my mate everywhere.

So, towards the end of the night I approached him and queried his following eyes. He's like, I know you from somewhere (LIES! I dont even live here..). We got to talking about different things; politics came up alot (it's how I roll...). Despite the fact we had very different political views, we got along well. He was a bit older than me, but that was one of the reasons I went for it.

Now, the next Saturdayu I went there I drank alot more, but got talking to him for a bit. I think I may have given my number to him (not 100% sure).

Then the exact same thing happened on the following Wednesday (I should really stop drinking). Both nights he was aaaallllll about the staring again.

But after a few times of going he wasn't there (off sick) until last night. Saw him, got talking again.

Turns out he has no recollection of us. Like none. I'm like.. LIES. He was, once again staring at us ALL night. He knew who we were, and he so obviously LIED about it, though I don't know why.

Well, we had another convo, and it was all going well. He didn't seem too interested in my mate, but kept on talking word vomit to me. There was a hell of a lot of leaning close, touching and eyecontact.

Then later on in the night when I was saying goodbye for 3 months (as I'm flying back in a few days), I said to him I knew he remembered me, and I knew he still had my number. He just smiled and shook his head (LIES!). I was all open for him to use it....

Question; What the hell is going through this guy's head? I was only in town for a short time and just wanted to have a bit of no-strings-attached fun. I knew he was single (as he had told me in nights previous), and I know he hated relationships. (Although a few years ago, his hideous bitch of an ex girlfriend did offer a mate of mine a threesome with him. She - being a virgin at the time - ran away terrified). So I'm guessing casual encounters is not unwelcome with him...

What on earth is going on? Why has he not called/texted?

Gah. I leave in 2 days...

-thesolitaryone-

[Sonofalich]

player is a player

[Jacksonian]

Well, if he didn't like relationships then probably he would have called you, but maybe there is another part of the story he hasn't told you.