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End Of The Line -
June 20th 2010, 06:22 PM
I've posted a thread about Kevin before, but this one asks a different question...
I don't think I really told what went on well in my last thread, because I was partially at fault. I did tell him I was feeling really really depressed today because he ignored me all day & some people were telling me he was using me. He was really whatever about it, & I yelled at him, & the next day he said that stuff to me & stopped responding.
I gave him space & left for relatives the next day. On Thursday his friend emailed me & told me at her grad party (on saturday, the day after he said this stuff to me) he was screwing a girl he said he'd never date because he doesn't date slutty potheads. She went on about how much happier Kevin was without me and with her & how his parents were always trying to convince him to date her instead of me & how he was allowed to date her because his parents were so in love with her. (I don't buy this because I don't think Kevin's parents ever met Devin. And even if they did her face & voice are screwed up from meth & cocaine & she talks about nothing but sex. No parent would like her.) This friend's ex-girlfriend is one of my best friends & she honestly thinks its all lies.
I tried getting to the bottom of this but he told me he needed space & to go talk to our other friend. He's not just ignoring me, he's been avoiding his best friends all week.
Even if this whole Devin thing never happened, he'll be doing some groveling if he ever wants to get back together. & what if it did? Kevin is not the type of person to do this stuff in the first place. I've been friends with him for months. And it's really hard to just drop him. We all want to find out why he's avoiding everyone.
Keep in mind Kevin was born with issues...he has ADHD & autism for starts, & some other stuff he's not comfortable discussing, which I respect.
Sooo what's everyone's take on this?
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