Messed Up.

[Darling.x]

I Have Been With This Guy For Like Two/Three Months And It Was Going Quite Well. However, Even Though We've Argued Like A Lot, We Always Seemed To Work It Out. Im Starting To Think Whether Hes Worth It Though, As We Hardly Speak Face To Face And See Eachother.

I Always Start Speaking To Him First And Its Starting To Get On My Nerves How He Never Starts Up A Converstation. I Try And Sort The Relationship Out And Save It But It Seems Like He Doesnt Care Sometimes & That Hurts A Lot.

But, Theres Another Guy. This Guy Is Like My Best Friend. However, I Feel Really Attracted To Him. He Cares About Me, Speaks To Me And Pays Me Compliments That Make Me Feel Good About Myself. Hes Probably The Sweetest Person I Know. Somehow, I Think That The Fact That My Boyfriend's Attitude Is Pushing Me Closer To My Best Friend And Developing My Attraction To My Best Friend. Me And My Best Friend Know About The Attraction And We Both Feel Attracted To Eachother.

I've Been Thinking And It Occoured To Me That If My Boyfriend Had Been Treating Me Better, I Would Have Never Developed An Even Stronger Attraction To My Best Friend Than I Had Months Ago.

I Really Am Clueless About What To Do. Does This Make Me A Slag? What Am I Doing Wrong? Whats Wrong With My Boyfriend? How Do I Stop Feeling Attracted To My Best Friend?

Thank Youu

[StabMyHeartLover]

Your not a slag.
Simply talk to your boyfriend about how your feeling.
Even if your boyfriend have been very good to you, you still may have felt attracted to your friend.

I say if you don't really see yor relaship going anywhere, break up with your boyfriend & date your friend!

[99 Problems]

Well I actually think you should breakup with your boyfriend, however do not get with your best friend.

You would need to get over your current boyfriend first because as you clearly pointed out... your current boyfriends attitude has pushed you closer to this friend. Perhaps it is not love or attraction you feel for him but you are merely using that friend to get the affection and attention you require from a partner.

So this would be a bad idea to jump straight into a relationship with your best friend because what happens if 1 week/2 weeks/3 weeks etc down the line you realise he is not for you and he was just giving you the things you were craving and you confused this for attraction.

Either way though, you need to get rid of your boyfriend if you think he has an attitude problem and does not give you the things that you require to be happy with yourself and in the relationship.

[Danzy]

I think u should lost the boyfriend. Its evident ur practically puttin out all ur energy in makin it work and he's actin like a douche and not even tryin.. dont make someone priority if they dont treat u like priority. On the other hand think about ur bestfriend relationship if u realli want to risk u guys friendship in case things doesn't work out.