Im in love........

i_am_me_again · **Im in love........ -** June 23rd 2010, 01:15 PM

Im in love with this guy.........he gave me his phone number but I lost it and I havnt been able to contact him.

But I have been told where he lives, so me and my mate are gonna go round there to see him.............my question is.....

Is this a bit stalkish?

StabMyHeartLover · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 23rd 2010, 01:43 PM

Depons on what you find stalkerish.
If you find that he might, then why not try to find sombody that has his number & call it to see if you can come over
Goodluck!

Work_In_Progress · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 23rd 2010, 02:36 PM

Why not be truthful once you go to see him? That you lost his phone number, but you still want to get to know him and after you hang out with him for a bit you get his number back and make sure you don't lose it!

I'm sure he'll be flattered that you made the trip! I'm sure he won't label you as the stalker girl, I mean you're both adults, and if he is mature enough he won't immediately think about it in a negative way.

Snufkin · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 23rd 2010, 03:53 PM

Just say that you lost his number but still wanted to see him, so someone you know told you where he lived

I'm sure if he was happy to enough to give you his number, he'll be happy to see you went out of your way for him.

Tess* · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 23rd 2010, 11:21 PM

It depends how you know where he lives. If you phonebooked him, then it would be a bit weird. If you have a mutual friend, not so weird.
Either way, I'd say do it.
If you start to hesitate you could write a letter and put it in his mailbox.

Megan1 · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 24th 2010, 01:20 AM

I wouldn't like....stand outside of his house and stare at it. lol But if you go there and knock on the door and just say honestly that you lost his number and wanted to know if you could have it again- I wouldn't find that stalkerish. lol

i_am_me_again · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 25th 2010, 02:19 AM

Thank you

Im doing this on wednesday. I must find him

PSY · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 25th 2010, 07:08 PM

If you have a mutual friend, then why not ask them for his phone number? If no one else has his phone number for some reason, then no, I don't think it's stalker-ish for you and a friend to swing by his house and say hello. =)

Danzy · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 26th 2010, 06:51 PM

U can try goin to his place jus as long as u dont ring the doorbell and run or pull some stunt like that.. Its good to bring a friend along with u so u don't feel awkard

i_am_me_again · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 26th 2010, 07:31 PM

Im going on wednesday, defaintly, wish me luck so I find him

ThrashAttack · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 26th 2010, 07:49 PM

Hope it goes to plan

Pelios · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 26th 2010, 10:56 PM

Good luck.
take some friend for moral support.

losing touch. · **Re: Im in love........ -** June 26th 2010, 11:48 PM

why don't you just put a note through his door with your phone number on if you don't want to actually ring the bell and have the awkward 'urrr.. hi' conversation. :S

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StabMyHeartLover Offline Member Regular TeenHelper ***** Name: Casey Age: 18 Gender: Female Location: Lost in my head O_o Posts: 482 Join Date: January 8th 2009	Re: Im in love........ - June 23rd 2010, 01:43 PM Depons on what you find stalkerish. If you find that he might, then why not try to find sombody that has his number & call it to see if you can come over Goodluck!

Snufkin Offline We Do Not Sow I've been here a while ******** Name: Scott Age: 21 Gender: Male Location: Moomin Valley Posts: 1,658 Join Date: January 17th 2009	Re: Im in love........ - June 23rd 2010, 03:53 PM Just say that you lost his number but still wanted to see him, so someone you know told you where he lived I'm sure if he was happy to enough to give you his number, he'll be happy to see you went out of your way for him. Tweet Tweet. Social group for fellow Twitter addicts!

Tess* Offline Member Experienced TeenHelper ****** Name: Tess Age: 19 Gender: Female Location: Canada Posts: 504 Join Date: January 7th 2009	Re: Im in love........ - June 23rd 2010, 11:21 PM It depends how you know where he lives. If you phonebooked him, then it would be a bit weird. If you have a mutual friend, not so weird. Either way, I'd say do it. If you start to hesitate you could write a letter and put it in his mailbox. How's your life? It's been a while God, it's good to see you smile <3

Megan1 Offline Member Senior TeenHelper ******* Name: Megan Gender: Female Location: USA Posts: 824 Join Date: February 6th 2010	Re: Im in love........ - June 24th 2010, 01:20 AM I wouldn't like....stand outside of his house and stare at it. lol But if you go there and knock on the door and just say honestly that you lost his number and wanted to know if you could have it again- I wouldn't find that stalkerish. lol

i_am_me_again Offline I'm A Pyschotic Neurotic. I can't get enough ********* Name: Jaymi Age: 26 Gender: Female Location: England Posts: 3,221 Join Date: January 6th 2009	Re: Im in love........ - June 25th 2010, 02:19 AM Thank you Im doing this on wednesday. I must find him HelpLink Mentor & Forum Moderator PM me! Our lives are like music. It hits its high and low notes, But in the end, It all turns into a perfect melody

Danzy Offline Member Not a n00b ** Age: 20 Gender: Female Posts: 60 Join Date: May 26th 2010	Re: Im in love........ - June 26th 2010, 06:51 PM U can try goin to his place jus as long as u dont ring the doorbell and run or pull some stunt like that.. Its good to bring a friend along with u so u don't feel awkard ღ▫You'll never leave where you are until [you] decide where you'd rather be▫ღ

ThrashAttack Offline Banned I've been here a while ******** Name: Will Age: 20 Gender: Male Location: Edge of Oblivion Posts: 1,380 Join Date: January 10th 2009	Re: Im in love........ - June 26th 2010, 07:49 PM Hope it goes to plan

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