Is it Wrong?

JakeSim · **Is it Wrong? -** June 24th 2010, 05:01 AM

Okay so tonight I went to my friends and there was this girl there I knew which I never really talked to and she said shed be interested in hooking up with me, she told this to my friend. I thought she's pretty hot but then again at the same time I thought that her face is somewhat not that attractive to me, but then again, it is. Well we were laying on the couch together and I put my arm around her and soon after we just started kissing.

Does this make it wrong if I'm unsure. It kind of just happens. Intry to avoid things like that if I'm unsure but I feel like in these situations I need to go along with it to see? Does this make it wrong? I'm completely against leading people on.

aussie · **Re: Is it Wrong? -** June 24th 2010, 05:25 AM

I personally don't think it would make it wrong if you are unsure. Just let her know how you truly feel about the situation therefore she will have an idea of what she is getting into and that way you won't seem like you were simply leading her on. A lot of people are unsure at first maybe if you both know then you can see where it goes. Good luck.

Singing to the starlight · **Re: Is it Wrong? -** June 24th 2010, 07:43 AM

As long as you don't give her the idea that you really like her, and say it straight to her, what you did on its own is not wrong. You're young, these things happen

StabMyHeartLover · **Re: Is it Wrong? -** June 24th 2010, 09:55 AM

Naw, its just hormones sillly.

Danzy · **Re: Is it Wrong? -** June 25th 2010, 02:01 AM

If ur not sure about it.. try not to lead her on because thats where feelings might end up gettin hurt and things might not go as expected for either u or her

PSY · **Re: Is it Wrong? -** June 25th 2010, 07:14 PM

You could meet the most beautiful woman in all the world, with the best personality to boot... but if you don't have chemistry when making out or having sex, then there's no guarantee you'll be able to sustain a ROMANTIC relationship with that person. No, I don't think it's wrong to kiss someone, even if you're unsure, because you can NEVER know with 100% certainty if you'll have that chemistry until you try. Just don't lead her on... if you enjoyed the kissing, but aren't sure about getting into a relationship, tell her. That way, she'll know what she's getting herself into.

brokenmercy · **Re: Is it Wrong? -** June 25th 2010, 08:05 PM

Just make sure she is aware of how you feel that way she does not end up hurt after everything is done. You seem confused on what you want. That's definitly something you need to know. And that is comeing from experience. If you don't know what you want, then youjust wind up hurting everyone that gets close to you.

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aussie Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Posts: 3 Join Date: June 16th 2009	Re: Is it Wrong? - June 24th 2010, 05:25 AM I personally don't think it would make it wrong if you are unsure. Just let her know how you truly feel about the situation therefore she will have an idea of what she is getting into and that way you won't seem like you were simply leading her on. A lot of people are unsure at first maybe if you both know then you can see where it goes. Good luck.

Singing to the starlight Offline <3 I've been here a while ******** Name: Hannah Age: 20 Gender: Female Location: England Posts: 1,909 Join Date: January 25th 2009	Re: Is it Wrong? - June 24th 2010, 07:43 AM As long as you don't give her the idea that you really like her, and say it straight to her, what you did on its own is not wrong. You're young, these things happen If the world is a cold place Make it your business to start some fires Formerly RainbowLove*

StabMyHeartLover Offline Member Regular TeenHelper ***** Name: Casey Age: 18 Gender: Female Location: Lost in my head O_o Posts: 482 Join Date: January 8th 2009	Re: Is it Wrong? - June 24th 2010, 09:55 AM Naw, its just hormones sillly.

Danzy Offline Member Not a n00b ** Age: 20 Gender: Female Posts: 60 Join Date: May 26th 2010	Re: Is it Wrong? - June 25th 2010, 02:01 AM If ur not sure about it.. try not to lead her on because thats where feelings might end up gettin hurt and things might not go as expected for either u or her ღ▫You'll never leave where you are until [you] decide where you'd rather be▫ღ

brokenmercy Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Age: 19 Posts: 10 Join Date: June 22nd 2010	Re: Is it Wrong? - June 25th 2010, 08:05 PM Just make sure she is aware of how you feel that way she does not end up hurt after everything is done. You seem confused on what you want. That's definitly something you need to know. And that is comeing from experience. If you don't know what you want, then youjust wind up hurting everyone that gets close to you.

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