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Too young.. - June 28th 2010, 09:58 PM

Im 16 years old and i have a 12 year old brother. One of his friends.. I see him quite alot and ive got really close to him and we talk alot and everything but the problem is hes the same age as my brother Hes such a nice boy and i love talking to him but i wish so much that he was older. And i think it would be wrong if i went out with him wouldnt it?
Although he seems quite mature for his age. But yeh it just keeps bugging me cos i like him but i cant magic him to be older lol and i know your prob gunna say find someone near my own age.. but he seems so much nicer than boys my age haha. any advice???
   
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Re: Too young.. - June 28th 2010, 10:05 PM

Well, you could always have him as a friend. The thing is at our age, even four years makes a big difference as far as dating because you are at complete different stages in life. For example, whereas he is in junior high you are what maybe a junior in high school.

If he is very mature for his own age though then maybe a casual relationship could work. Do you know if he feels the same way about you.
   
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Re: Too young.. - June 28th 2010, 10:13 PM

no i dont really know how he feels. Hes really sweet and tells me im gorgeous and stuff but im not sure if he fancys me. I just thought it would seem wrong if i went out with him cos he seems so much younger.
   
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Re: Too young.. - June 28th 2010, 10:25 PM

I do think 12 is a little too young to start dating. Maybe you could stay friends, it would seem a little weird if you did go out with him.


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Re: Too young.. - June 28th 2010, 10:30 PM

i know.. hes nearly 13 but yeh im gutted hes too young!
   
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Re: Too young.. - June 28th 2010, 10:34 PM

I don't think he's too young to date, but I think your age difference means too much right now. Later in life, it wouldn't matter as much, but if a highschooler would be dating like a 6th or 7th grader in my school district, I'd think it was a little off... Sorry... but then again, it's only your opinion that matters, right?
   
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Re: Too young.. - June 28th 2010, 10:38 PM

yeah i can see what your saying maybe i should just stay friends with him then.
   
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Re: Too young.. - June 28th 2010, 10:46 PM

wait a year or two, then go girl! I was asked out by a guy who is 3 years old it was weird, but he's a perv, so it's different!

You should stay friends with him till then!

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Re: Too young.. - June 29th 2010, 04:09 PM

Okay thank you
   
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