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June 29th 2010, 05:42 AM
I detailed in my previous thread a few days ago that I was heartbroken over my crush of 7-8 months dating another guy. Despite that, I sucked it up and wanted her to be happy, even if it's not me she's with.
Here's the kicker though. Earlier tonight, she trusted me with a secret very few know: She's moving... I've already gone through an emotional roller coaster this past week. First the heartbreak, then my grandma being in critical condition, and now one of my closest friends moving away halfway across the U.S. Since I only have one month to see her, as she's moving away at the end of July, should I just pour my feelings out now? This move is until graduation and so we, unless she visits during the summer, probably won't see each other again. I'm seeing her on Wednesday (hopefully) since we're going to a friend's concert and so I was planning to tell her then. Should it just be verbal or should I show my feelings in another way, with like a kiss or something? Yes it violates the rules of relationships but I'm breaking down already from all the emotional stress and this is probably my last chance to see her until next year. Please help! "Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods." - Artistotle
"There comes a point in life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will." "A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else." "The worst feeling you'll ever feel is sitting next to the person who means the world to you, knowing that you mean nothing to them." |
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Re: What to do??? -
June 29th 2010, 05:52 AM
On second thought, never mind. I'm not going screw it up for her. That's jsut selfish of me.
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"There comes a point in life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will." "A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else." "The worst feeling you'll ever feel is sitting next to the person who means the world to you, knowing that you mean nothing to them." |
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June 29th 2010, 05:54 AM
I know that you care about this girl. But the fact of the matter is she is with someone else. One of your friends, or at least sort of friends. The fact that you love her or that you think he isn't ready for a relationship doesn't change that. And personally, I think that pursuing her, even by just telling her your feelings, would be wrong and unfair. I know that if I found out one of my friends had kissed or confessed their love for my boyfriend, I would be annoyed.
I think you should just leave it. If they break up before she leaves, then you can tell her if you want to. But right now, telling her is probably a bad idea. Dreaming about the day When you wake up and find That what you're looking for Has been here the whole time. |
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June 29th 2010, 05:57 AM
Yeah I realized it was a bad idea right after some details of their relationship got revealed to me. Can someone please close this thread? It's just a waste of space now.
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June 29th 2010, 06:08 AM
Closing this thread, since the issue has been resolved.
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