Is this considered cheating????

~babydoll~ · **Is this considered cheating???? -** August 1st 2010, 08:59 PM

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 weeks now. Everything is going really great. One night, my friend told me that he kissed his ex girlfriend. I was really shocked and upset when I heard about it. I talked to him about it, and he told me that his ex girlfriend kissed him first. She kept bothering him about it because he didn't want to kiss her back and he told her that he wasn't single. So, she continued to bother him. He couldn't take it anymore so he kissed her back so she can leave him alone. I didn't think that was considered cheating because he didn't kiss her first. Everyone wants me to leave him because they care about my feelings. I really don't want to leave him because I love him too death and he wants to be with me forever. Can someone help me or give me some advice please???

niente_ · **Re: Is this considered cheating???? -** August 1st 2010, 09:15 PM

At the end of the day, he agreed to kiss her. He should have just told her to stop it. It's likely that this is a cover up story. It's not okay for him to kiss his ex whilst he's with you, whether she pestered him or not. But to me it sounds like a lie to make him look like he did nothing wrong.

It's up to you what you do ... if you're willing to forgive him and forget it then that's fine, but in my opinion you you should dump him, because it's likely to happen again and look how it's making you hurt ... it'll just happen over and over and you'll feel like this constantly. It's only 2 weeks in to the relationship and yes, he technically cheated on you ALREADY. It doesn't matter who kissed who, all that matters is that they kissed. He kissed a girl when he was with you. That classes as cheating. It's like someone saying that they cheated on you by having sex with another girl, but she initiated so it's fine. No it's not.

I know it hurts, but you need to get rid of him. The best way to get over someone (belive me, I know) is to cut off all contact. Don't ring him, talk to him, see him or anything like that. You deserve better than him.

Don't believe his story. I don't.

Tara. · **Re: Is this considered cheating???? -** August 1st 2010, 09:27 PM

I'd consider it cheating, but that's a choice you have to make.

TheSmileFell · **Re: Is this considered cheating???? -** August 1st 2010, 09:39 PM

It is considered cheating. You can decide though.
He made a decision to kiss her, and he shouldn't have. I think it is obvious that someone who isn't single should know that it is not okay to kiss someone else. That would be very hurtful, and would send mixed messages. He could be using this as a cover story also.

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Tara. Offline You member. I can't get enough ********* Age: 23 Gender: Girl. Location: Colorado. Posts: 2,112 Join Date: February 13th 2009	Re: Is this considered cheating???? - August 1st 2010, 09:27 PM I'd consider it cheating, but that's a choice you have to make. To you, everything's funny. - ♥ - I'd give all I have, honey. - If you could stay like that. Stay this little. - ☂ - I won't let nobody hurt you. Just try to never grow up. - ♫ - Never grow up.

TheSmileFell Offline Member Average Joe *** Name: Kori Gender: Female Location: Usa Posts: 109 Join Date: March 2nd 2010	Re: Is this considered cheating???? - August 1st 2010, 09:39 PM It is considered cheating. You can decide though. He made a decision to kiss her, and he shouldn't have. I think it is obvious that someone who isn't single should know that it is not okay to kiss someone else. That would be very hurtful, and would send mixed messages. He could be using this as a cover story also.

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