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Re: 2 questions for females - August 17th 2010, 08:06 PM

1) I would have a problem with weed or smoking of any kind as I am a smoker.

2) I'm just gonna be honest I would be a bit uncomfortable with it. Especially if he had had sex with a guy, because I feel that that would be just weird. And I think I would have trust issues. And also I would want to be with a guy that I know for sure is attracted to me and is attracted to me because I'm a girl, not because I might have some guyish looks.


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Re: 2 questions for females - August 17th 2010, 08:06 PM

I wouldnt be happy if my boyfriend smoked weed. I dont agree with drugs at all...

As for bisexual, well I wouldnt exactly be thrilled about it, I'd prefer him to be straight, but I dont think it would bother me that much...





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Re: 2 questions for females - August 18th 2010, 02:42 AM

1. As much as I dislike weed, I wouldn't mind as long as he doesn't abuse it.
2. I wouldn't mind if he was bi I'm an open and tolerant person.


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Re: 2 questions for females - August 18th 2010, 01:41 PM

1) If it was a continuous thing, I would have to leave it, because I know first hand what it does to people, so I am strongly against it, however I wouldn't mind it if it was like, once at a party, just not every week.
2) Wouldn't bother me at all, I guess that would be kinda cool (:




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Re: 2 questions for females - August 18th 2010, 06:47 PM

well ya i my ex smoked every day and i loved it...because well i love the smell of weed. i find it very attractive.
he was also very bi and i didnt mind it because so am i. plus he never cheated so it didnt matter. it kinda does make a girl feel like he'd rather e with another gy instead of her tho. lik hes daydreaming about other guy while hes with her. but peronally i dont mind.
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Re: 2 questions for females - August 19th 2010, 02:25 AM

1. It would bother me a lot because I've had bad experiences around people who smoke and it's made me pretty much hate the stuff.
2. If he were bi? I have absolutely nothing against that, but honestly it'd make me sad to know that not only would I be competeing for him against all the girls in the world, but also against all the guys too! That's a lot of competition
I definitely don't hold bisexuality against anyone though. Love is love and labels are labels.


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Re: 2 questions for females - August 19th 2010, 08:18 PM

No weed. If I actually care about a boyfriend, I can't let him do that. Weed is supposed to burn holes in your brain, dude. Not to mention I have some emotional problems with it.

And, as long as he was faithful, I wouldn't mind a bisexual boyfriend. My first [official] boyfriend was bi and we both thought Zachary Quinto was hot, LOL. It's another level to identify on, in my opinion.
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Re: 2 questions for females - August 30th 2010, 04:03 PM

1. My boyfriend smokes weed occasionally, and as long as he's not around other girls, thats fine with me.
2. If my boyfriend was bisexual, thatd be fine. But I would have a problem if he was with another guy sexually.
   
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Re: 2 questions for females - August 30th 2010, 04:49 PM

-1. I don't like the smell of weed, it grosses me out. Actually, I don't like weed, period. If he suddenly started smoking weed, I would be concerned. If he smoked weed before I met him then I wouldn't be as concerned, as long as it was infrequent.

-2. It wouldn't really bother me.
   
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Re: 2 questions for females - August 31st 2010, 12:32 AM

i wouldn't care. about either one.
   
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Re: 2 questions for females - August 31st 2010, 12:47 AM

1. I would not at all be okay with my boyfriend smoking like once a week. Pot has already ruined a relationship for me, it doesn't need to happen again.

2. I have no idea how I would feel if my boyfriend was bisexual.




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Re: 2 questions for females - August 31st 2010, 11:10 AM

Bisexual I would not care, in a weird way it might even make me more comfortable in some respects to know they're open-minded? But honestly, indifferent.

As for the weed, I wouldn't really like it being such a regular thing. I don't mind if he smokes weed as long as it's not a big part of his life and he doesn't rely on it at all and he doesn't expect me to do it.
   
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Re: 2 questions for females - September 1st 2010, 09:29 PM

-1. How would/do you feel about your boyfriend smoking weed at most once a week?
If my boyfriend started smoking again, I would break up with him. He had a drug problem previously, and he understands that I can't be his girlfriend if he gets high. I could be his friend, but nothing more.

-2. How would/do you feel if your boyfriend was bisexual?
I wouldn't have a problem with him being bisexual.


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Re: 2 questions for females - September 2nd 2010, 03:23 PM

Bisexual, wouldn't care. Why would it matter?
Hm. The weed, I guess I would prefer it didn't happen, just the way I was taught when I was growing up I guess. I have friends that do, and they don't hurt anyone doing it - that sounds bad, I mean it's not an addiction and they know they don't get violent or anything.
But I mean, if I want a boyfriend that doesn't smoke weed, then I won't date a guy that does, right?


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Re: 2 questions for females - September 2nd 2010, 04:58 PM

Bisexual, I wouldn't care. As long as you're faithful, I really don't care.
Weed, I would tell him to knock it off. I don't tolorate drug use.



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Re: 2 questions for females - September 2nd 2010, 08:59 PM

1. I would prefer to not be with a boy who smoked, but I love the guy I'm with right now to pieces. If he did smoke...I would still love him.
Otherwise, I wouldn't want to be with a "stoner".

2. It wouldn't matter to me one bit. Just so long as he didn't cheat on me with either men or women, why would his orientation matter?
   
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Re: 2 questions for females - September 2nd 2010, 11:41 PM

is there anyone on here who wuld be cool with theyre guy smokking?
   
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Re: 2 questions for females - September 5th 2010, 12:03 PM

1) I think I would have a problem if my boyfriend smoked weed. All the guys that I've dated weren't that sort of people. They didn't drink, smoke or do drugs or so I thought; they never told me if they did . I don't do those things anyway and I'm kind of against them as well.

2) I wouldn't mind at all if he was bi-sexual .


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Re: 2 questions for females - September 5th 2010, 10:18 PM

1. I'd be annoyed, maybe tell him to quit or cut down. As long as he didn't do it around me I guess I wouldn't complain too much

2. As long as he wasn't tempted to cheat on me with a guy then i'd be okay =P
I'd support him and not make a big deal out of it. So overall, wouldn't bother me much.


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Re: 2 questions for females - September 6th 2010, 01:33 AM

I don't care either way. I'm bisexual, if my husband was bisexual, well great than. Smoking weed, he does. I don't, but I don't see a problem with it. The bills get paid, the kids are happy, healthy and have what they need. Smoking weed isn't his first priority.


   
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Re: 2 questions for females - September 6th 2010, 03:21 AM

the weed part would probably bother me a bit, but i'd be fine with the bi part




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Re: 2 questions for females - September 6th 2010, 03:25 AM

1- i would not like it if my boyfriend smoked weed AT ALL. i don't even like the fact that he drinks so much.
2- i wouldn't mind if he was bisexual, because i am...as long as he doesn't want any polyamory and he doesn't have a lingering eye.


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Re: 2 questions for females - September 6th 2010, 05:11 AM

I wouldn't care in the least if my boyfriend was bi. BUt smoking pot would bother me. I hate the smell and the whole idea of getting high bugs me.


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