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Falling out of love - August 30th 2010, 04:04 AM

Have you ever fallen for someone and really liked them. Like especially in an obsessive way, but then you take a break, come back to them, and it freaks you out? Or they fall for you and then you fall out of love and are freaked out by them or you do something physical, it freaks you out then you fall out of love with them?

I hope that all made some kinda sense lol. It just happened to me and i wanted to know if this had happened to anyone else.
   
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Re: Falling out of love - August 30th 2010, 06:06 AM

Yeah, it's happened to me loads, my brain is really annoying like that Sometimes you can get sick of someone if you get too much of them, or if they seem to like you more than you like them, or sometimes it's just that you prefer the idea of them to who they actually are. Hope you're ok?? (: xx


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Re: Falling out of love - August 30th 2010, 06:14 AM

Yup, its happened to me, its rough cause your expectations were there and their hopes were up and then... crap.... best thing to do it let them know and go your sepreat ways before making ti any worse and ruinging what could still be a friendship.
   
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Re: Falling out of love - September 1st 2010, 02:06 AM

That's happened to many people, including me.

But that wasn't really love rather an infatuation or better yet a strong liking but not love because love never ends.


I came here to help out, so if you wanna talk or just need someone to bounce ideas or issues off of or something else then send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can.
   
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Re: Falling out of love - September 1st 2010, 02:25 AM

It's happened to me before, and everytime I feel relieved because it was an absolute waste of time.
   
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Re: Falling out of love - September 3rd 2010, 12:11 AM

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It's happened to me before, and everytime I feel relieved because it was an absolute waste of time.
I wouldn't say it was a waste of time. I like to think of the whole ordeal as though the heart was testing to see if that person you developed a liking for was "The One". To me its a fascinating thing to happen, you know. I mean you begin to like someone and then not like them again. Its really interesting as to what happens in our hearts.


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