Is this a good thing to tell my girlfriend?

[Ccab]

Okay..we are kind of on a semi break but we are still seeing each other..it was her idea and she is telling me everything is going to be okay..Im trying to keep this short and sweet. hopefully I can get some quick replies soon.

We have been dating for almost 3 years and I kind of havent been the best boyfriend to her. Ive kind of taken our relationship for granted. So she mentioned this "chilling out" thing and I kind of starting doing what people call as Text Terrorism where you text your ex or your girlfriend a lot and feel like needy and too pushy. so I am going to go to her house later and just be like look... " I am no expert by all means at relationships, this isnt something they teach us in middle school, high school etc..." I know I have screwed up and I dont deserve you one bit." " I love you more than anything in this whole world and I am willing to do whatever it takes to make this relationship right" "whether you want to talk still off and on or just want to cut it clean for awhile" "whatever you want to do I will respect that and do what I need to do" "Whenever you are ready to take me back and start things over" " I am ready to be a man and take responsibility in treating you the way a beautiful woman like you should be treated"


something like that? does that sound good?

[xxpaigiexx]

Hey,
That sounds like a good thing to say to her, but most importantly you have to mean it. I'm sure telling your girlfriend how much she means to you and how sorry you are will mean a lot to her and it could make things with the two of you better. Although you shouldn't say it unless you're entirely sure you mean it, because if things are going to go back after a while it's pointless in saying it.
Good luck,
Paige

[Ccab]

Okay, thanks. and I do mean it with all my heart. Its just ive said kind of those same things to her before and betrayed her trust. So, she kind of cant believe me. But I really mean it to her this time and I want to do the right thing.

[RedJames]

Sounds like a solid apology to me, and its good to see/read thats you know yourself where you have messed up and that your willing to fix/change it and i think she will see and respect that and i have a good feeling for you that it will work out.

[MissMatched]

Ditto to the above answers, sounds great, and trust me, saying it in person means a hell of a lot too.
Ugh, what technology is doing to relationships these days.