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Should i be more affectionate with my bf? - September 1st 2010, 06:38 PM

Heyyy everyone;

Ive met an amazing guy who im soso happy with.

He's very cute and always saying cute things and taking me places..
And im not used to guys being as affectionate and i do like it, but do guys like the same sort of affection or something a lil more chilled out?

I dont know what kind of compliments to give him? I call him handsome sometimes but thats it. I have a feeling he'd feel silly if i called him cute or sexy haha and i know i would feel a little weird as im not used to it.

Physically, we do hold hands and cuddle..is there anything else i can do?
Just little things that let him know im happy to be with him and find him attractive, without him necessarelly thinking im asking for sex haha.


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Re: Should i be more affectionate with my bf? - September 1st 2010, 06:57 PM

Work yourself into it. Like you said your not used to this yet and so your not used to calling guys cute things.
I am sure he knows that you like him and all that. You don't have to jump into it and call him every name in the book. But guys do actually like to be called sexy and cute. I know a lot of guys that actually liked to be called that.
Just start small, if he smiles and you like it say. I love your smile. If you like what he is wearing tell him he looks good or sexy in it. Tell him things that suit him.
Tell him you like it when he calls you sweet things or say sweet things, that is a compliment in itself and most like to hear it.
When you two are together anywhere and aren't holding hands, just gently touch him on his leg if you two are sitting next to each other somewhere or lay your hand on his shoulder or wrap your arm around his shoulders. It is a sweet gesture and reassuring.


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Re: Should i be more affectionate with my bf? - September 3rd 2010, 01:40 AM

Ok, thats nice. Just remember to take it slow and not to rush things and to get to know him better.


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