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September 2nd 2010, 04:21 PM
Hi, just to give a little background I am 18 and I have a 16 year old girlfriend. We have known each other for a little over a year now, and about 4 months ago I asked her out, she said yes. 3 months ago it became "official" that we are in a relationship. Our official day for 3 months is this Monday, September 6.
Anyway, we have kissed, but nothing really beyond that. I am wondering if it is OK to maybe touch her in some way other than holding hands. Like maybe touch her leg or something I dont know. I'm not sure if this is OK, and I dont want to screw things up. I was thinking maybe I should ask her, but I don't want to be weird or anything like that. Any advice at all is greatly appreciated. |
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Re: Not sure if this is OK -
September 2nd 2010, 05:47 PM
You can always just try it out and see how she reacts?
If she reacts badly apologize and make it up to her some how. Or try it out, and ask if it's okay... Every girl is different, and they all like different types of things... So she may like it :] Good luck! Hope everything goes well! |
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Re: Not sure if this is OK -
September 2nd 2010, 06:06 PM
make it simple at first, tell her you like her hair and brush it near her neck.
In my experience, if a girl is fine with you touching her neck, she's usually pretty good with you touching her anywhere, obviously not Anywhere....but you get what i mean. |
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Re: Not sure if this is OK -
September 2nd 2010, 08:13 PM
Ok. For the most part I wanted to just make sure this wasn't something that was really weird or something like that. I guess this isn't an odd thing, so Ill go ahead and go with it. Thanks
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Re: Not sure if this is OK -
September 3rd 2010, 01:04 AM
I wouldn't ask first, for something simple like that ~ it might make things a little awkward. Let things progress naturally. Like missing said, maybe touch her neck a little ~ that can be nice
 I'm sure if you've been going out for a few months now she won't mind. You could try touching her waist as well or putting your arm around her. Don't try to overthink it though, just do what feels right with her (: x
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Re: Not sure if this is OK -
September 3rd 2010, 01:50 PM
ASK HER. Never underestimate the power of communication, lol.
But I will say for the most part - the hair play is always a win  Haha.
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Re: Not sure if this is OK -
September 3rd 2010, 04:47 PM
Try it and see how she reacts; make sure she's definitely comfortable with whatever contact you make, and maybe remind her that she can tell you if she feels uncomfortable with something. I know the latter might be a bit awkward, but a lot of girls really appreciate it when guys let them know they care about that sort of thing.
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