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Why so Serious?
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October 5th 2010, 04:55 AM
okay so my boyfriend seems to be a ladies, man girls love him, i don't mind they say miss you hun TO HIM...but when he comment that on one girls album recently i couldn't help but get jealous he told me he wasn't going to put our relationship status on our facebook since he's 20 and im 15 almost 16 both our moms would make it hell if they found out...so within a day or two of him changing his relationship status some girl posted "mwaaa...<3" on his wall and he replied with just "
 " that's it i didn't mention it...i asked him yesterday what happened to not changing out relationship statuses he said i didnt put a name on it did i :P? i sent back what happened to waiting until im 16 he said well im all your however whenever you want i love you...so it turns out the relationship status was about me...and i truly and totally believe he really does love me with all his heart like he says and you can tell but he's all the way in calgary and im in manitoba...am i just being paranoid...should i bring it up that it bothers me i dont want to seem childish and jealous or suspicious of him cheating if he's not i told him straight out cause he told me he doesnt want to lose me i said you cant lose me unless you cheat he didn't seem worried at all...should i talk to him about it?  The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. PM me if you need to talk about ANYTHING. |
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October 5th 2010, 01:28 PM
How long have you two been together?
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October 5th 2010, 02:17 PM
I think it depends. It really does seem logical that he would be nervous about posting his facebook status as in a relationship with you because of the age difference, and the kiss noise could have just been a friend and totally innocent. If he hasn't done anything to make you doubt how he feels for you or worry that he's cheating on you then I personally wouldn't bring it up, simply because it doesn't seem like a big deal to me, but if you're genuinely worried and you think talking to him will make you feel better then go for it
I'm sure he'll understand. Hope things work out, -Megan “For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” 9.12.09 <3 Tumblr http://lovelylaughter.tumblr.com/ |
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October 5th 2010, 03:53 PM
I find it kind of offensive when a partner doesn't want to broadcast the relationship on facebook (sad I know). But it makes me feel like they're ashamed of being with me, and don't want people to know. I know that you two have an age difference, and you wouldn't want the relationship to be shown on facebook, but you could both have 'in a relationship' on there, without eachothers names. Then maybe he wouldn't get so much attention from other women.
But if you do have these concerns, then you should speak to him. Communication is really important in a relationship and if you can't speak to him properly, then you have some issues. Take care. |
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October 6th 2010, 02:01 AM
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The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. PM me if you need to talk about ANYTHING. |
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October 6th 2010, 08:34 AM
(woo calgary ftw!)
I think you should be on the lookout for a new boyfriend, not because I thnk he's cheating on you but because I think that at your age you would far greater enjoy being close with someone than with hoping that your Romeo, who is far away, is being faithful. Also there are a lot of pretty girls in calgary, and knowing the guy mentality as I do... I am the Stig's brother in law.
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October 6th 2010, 12:58 PM
You should at least talk to him about it, because no relationship can survive without good communication.
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October 6th 2010, 01:13 PM
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But I think you'd probably be best with someone close to your own age, at 15 five years is a massive age gap. Especially with the difference... But some actual advice? If your insecure with how he is with girls should you be with him? 'And in the garden, lust began The animal instinct, the wanton man She fed him with a hunger, an appetite And fillin' with emotion he took a bite' Def Leppard - Women |
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October 8th 2010, 05:21 AM
im not really insecure about it now...i've kind of realized i may have overreacted quite alot...as for guys my age im always going to have a problem with this i absolutely HATE guys my age they piss me off so much their all assholes here...and shallow and arogant i dont want to date younger guys...maybe their not like that everywhere else but i've been told im alot more mature than my age and all the guys i know are way more immature for their age it sucks...
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i made a mistake...he's actually moved to BC now but still i trust him now im sure im just being paranoid The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. PM me if you need to talk about ANYTHING. |
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