cheating?

[stephanie2011]

So in the start of our relationship some girl told me she hooked up with my boyfriend at the shore but he denied and i didnt really no the girl so i let it go. then some other girl said her boyfriend told her my boyfriend cheats on me. His brother is known for cheating on his girlfriend and idk if I should just let it go and believe my bf. But also, throughout our relationship Ive learned he's a pretty convincing liar....dont no wat to do

[taylalatbh.]

Hey there,

I think you just need to follow your heart. If you're happy in the relationship, and you believe that he isn't cheating on you, then carry on with the relationship. But maybe keep your eye out incase you spot anything suspicious.

But, if you believe the other people talking, (and that's okay.) then you're okay to end things with him. If you feel he's cheating on you, and lying about it, then don't put yourself in that situation anymore. Leave him and move on.

I hope you work out what to do, take care.

[J&M's Mommy]

Without definitive proof, there is no way you are really going to know if your boyfriend is cheating or not - unless he admits to it. But you will ruin your relationship if you ask him over-and-over again about cheating. Whether he is or is not.

So, it all comes down to a choice. Either you are going to choose to trust him, or choose to believe other people. Now, I can imagine your discomfort when more than one person has told you that your boyfriend has cheated on you. BUT, if he isn't going to fess up to anything he has done (if he has done anything that is) then you are truly left in a hard place.

I hope either the truth is uncovered, or you can make a decision that makes you happy. Best of luck. xx