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So I need your opinion. - February 11th 2011, 12:09 AM

The guy I like asked me to go to the valentine's day dance. My question is do you think he'll take things from there? I really like him and my sources () tell me he likes me too. I was thinking maybe I should make a move if he doesn't, but I don't know. Wadda ya think?
   
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Re: So I need your opinion. - February 11th 2011, 12:23 AM

Well, considering that I couldn't gather your intentions from your post, he will probably need some clarification as well. What exactly are you looking for in this dance?


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Re: So I need your opinion. - February 11th 2011, 03:12 AM

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Well, considering that I couldn't gather your intentions from your post, he will probably need some clarification as well. What exactly are you looking for in this dance?
In her post, she clearly states that she likes him. That's pretty clear to me.

If you think he might make a move, let him do it. But, if you don't think he is, then if you want things to escalate into a relationship, you make the first move. Don't always leave it up to the guy to make the move. Sometimes, that's just a disappointment.

Most men (that I have met anyway) aren't very good at taking hints, and have to be told outright what your thinking or feeling or etc. So, making subtle hints that you want him to make a move, might not click in his mind.











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Re: So I need your opinion. - February 11th 2011, 03:50 PM

He asked you to the dance so he obviously likes you, plus there's your "sources" on top of that. It doesn't sound like there's any reason at all not to make a move! In fact I'd bet that you won't have to! Good luck, have fun!
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Re: So I need your opinion. - February 11th 2011, 05:06 PM

Absolutely. Go for it. You don't just ask someone to the Valentine's Day dance unless you like them, so making a move can pretty much only end well.



   
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