Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?

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Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

No, as long as it wasn't with loads of other people, they would help you and be gentle cos they know you need tlc x

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

i wouldnt, because if they wernt still together, then it must have been a mistake.

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Virginity is an overblown concept that does more harm then good, so no.

In fact, if I was a virgin, and some older chick wanted my v-card, I'd jump at it.

Just remember, always wrap it before you tap it folks.

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

I don't think it would put me off as long as it wasn't with loads of people :-)

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

I'd almost forgotten how cheesy that phrase actually sounds... :p

Anyway, no it wouldn't put me off dating them - I'm realistic enough about the real world to know that the odds of someone my age still being a virgin are at best 50-50 and what someone has done before I met them (provided it wasn't illegal) isn't really my concern. I judge people based on who they are as people, not what their story is.

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

As long as they're not looking for sex at the moment, no.

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

nah... It might make things easier if you decide to have sex anyway

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

It wouldn't put me off but I'd be really intimidated. That was an issue with one of my previous crushes and I was having panic attacks XD

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

i think that everyone makes mistakes, and we learn from them. Mistakes help us grow, to become better people, even though mistakes can really hurt us. If someone isn't a virgin, but is willing to make a commitment to not have sex again until it is really worth it, then I say, give them the chance to prove themselves

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Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

No I wouldn't not date them just for that reason.
Now if there had been sexually active before me, and I planned on having sex with them, I would want them to be STD tested before we did anything (regardless of me being a virgin or not). It's all about safety.

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

No I don't think it would bother me unless all they were looking for was sex. And of course they would need to be STD free.

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Nope, I can't expect everyone I see to be a virgin.

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

It probably wouldn't put me off unless they have already had sex with a lot of people. I'm still a virgin and proud of that fact, but if someone else has already had sex and wants to date me, I'm not going to care unless they have had a lot of other partners and don't pressure me into having sex with them.

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Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

When I was still a virgin? Yeah, I think it would've bothered me.

Now though, I wouldn't have any problem dating someone virgin or not.

Re: Would it put you off dating someone if you found out they weren't a virgin and you were?
 

It wouldn't bother me, no. As long as they were fine with the fact I was a virgin.