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Question 2 years age difference for girls - February 25th 2011, 04:25 AM

So ummm is it bad for a girl to date a guy younger than her if it's like 2 years.... i'm J U S T askin' =p i don't like any1 :P don't say i do cuz i don't!


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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 25th 2011, 04:33 AM

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We're really not here to judge you, weather you like someone younger or not
My personal preference is to date guys that are my age or (and more typically) a bit older. But I certainly don't think that it's wrong to date someone who's a little younger than you... imo, what matters is how the two people feel about one another, and how well they match up in terms of maturity. One of my best friends (guy) is in a relationship with a girl who's several years older than him, and I've honestly never seen a couple more thoughtful or considerate of one another, more supportive, or more well-matched. To me at least, it all has to do with the individuals within the relationship







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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 25th 2011, 03:04 PM

Hey, um i just got out of a realationship with a guy two years OLDER than me and im a girl. The only problem i had was that he kept talking about stuff i wasnt ready for like weddings and where we will live and kids and stuff like that, that im just to young to worry about. My guess is you guys will be fine. I honestly dont believe its wrong.
   
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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 25th 2011, 03:13 PM

no there is nothing wrong with that. personally im into older guys..but its the same deal. there is still an age difference


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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 25th 2011, 05:30 PM

There's nothing wrong with the girl being 2 years older than the guy. Usually it's the other way around, but that doesn't make it wrong.

Everybody has his/her own preference. If you really like someone, age is no more than a number. I'm personally in a relationship with a girl that's 1.5 years younger and nobody ever said a word about it.





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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 25th 2011, 05:33 PM

I dated a girl who was a couple years older than me, she was totally cool with it, i just depends on your maturity levels, you know? I would date a younger girl if she was mature enough, but I find that, especially since I'm in university and a girl 2 years younger would be in high school, we'd be at two different stages in our lives, and the maturity level would be VAST.

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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 26th 2011, 12:51 AM

Age is just a number,
   
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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 26th 2011, 01:18 AM

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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 26th 2011, 01:36 AM

There's nothing wrong with it, it's a personal preference!! Personally I like to date guys my age or older. The youngest I've dated was 7months younger ... but it's up to everyone to make their own decision.


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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 26th 2011, 02:55 AM

My gf is like a year and a half almost 2 years older than I am. There's nothing wrong with it and we are both college students so its not so bad. When people are younger than 18 it can make more difference though


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Re: 2 years age difference for girls - February 27th 2011, 09:38 PM

There isn't necessarily anything wrong with it, but it might not always be the best thing to do. In my experience (I've never dated anyone two years younger than me, but naturally I know a few people who are) two years difference in teenagers between girls and boys presents a huge difference in maturity levels, so I personally wouldn't do it. Naturally, there will be an exception or two; I know a boy who has been out with mostly only girls 2 years older than him, but this is because he looks and acts in a way that would suggest he is several years older than his actual age. It's all down to personal preference at the end of the day
   
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Hey there (:
We're really not here to judge you, weather you like someone younger or not
My personal preference is to date guys that are my age or (and more typically) a bit older. But I certainly don't think that it's wrong to date someone who's a little younger than you... imo, what matters is how the two people feel about one another, and how well they match up in terms of maturity. One of my best friends (guy) is in a relationship with a girl who's several years older than him, and I've honestly never seen a couple more thoughtful or considerate of one another, more supportive, or more well-matched. To me at least, it all has to do with the individuals within the relationship
lol okay umm usually i date guys whom my friends say "aren't cute" cause i think they're awesome but i turn out to be wrong, they end up being ugly inside and out, this particular guy however.. he's younger and seems really sweet. i don't kow if he's supportive or mature. i think he's funny. time will tell i guess :] thank you!

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Hey, um i just got out of a realationship with a guy two years OLDER than me and im a girl. The only problem i had was that he kept talking about stuff i wasnt ready for like weddings and where we will live and kids and stuff like that, that im just to young to worry about. My guess is you guys will be fine. I honestly dont believe its wrong.
okay! it's not wrong... it's not wrong... he's the first guy who's like years apart! lol okay! thank you! :]

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no there is nothing wrong with that. personally im into older guys..but its the same deal. there is still an age difference
there is still an age difference... i had never thought about it like that! =] thank you! :]

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There's nothing wrong with the girl being 2 years older than the guy. Usually it's the other way around, but that doesn't make it wrong.

Everybody has his/her own preference. If you really like someone, age is no more than a number. I'm personally in a relationship with a girl that's 1.5 years younger and nobody ever said a word about it.
thanks :] usually my preference is my age but this one snuck up on me! =]

congradulations on the relationship! btw

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I dated a girl who was a couple years older than me, she was totally cool with it, i just depends on your maturity levels, you know? I would date a younger girl if she was mature enough, but I find that, especially since I'm in university and a girl 2 years younger would be in high school, we'd be at two different stages in our lives, and the maturity level would be VAST.

Just my two cents!
maturity levels....? well this guy, he's not exactly mature for his age but i wouldn't call him immature... i understand him completely and i can talk to him about things... where does that leave me? hmmm well i'll sort it out... Thank youu!

and i understand that situation (dating a high schooler) i dated an older guy last year who was immature

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There's nothing wrong with it, it's a personal preference!! Personally I like to date guys my age or older. The youngest I've dated was 7months younger ... but it's up to everyone to make their own decision.
i don't think this guy likes my personal preference =/ the youngest i've dated that was younger was a month difference... Well i'll figure it out. Thank youu! :]

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My gf is like a year and a half almost 2 years older than I am. There's nothing wrong with it and we are both college students so its not so bad. When people are younger than 18 it can make more difference though
i see your point.... but i've been told i act immature sometimes, mostly by an ex who was three years older but... nevermind i see your point (again) -laughs out loud- thankss =]

this was helpful :]

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There isn't necessarily anything wrong with it, but it might not always be the best thing to do. In my experience (I've never dated anyone two years younger than me, but naturally I know a few people who are) two years difference in teenagers between girls and boys presents a huge difference in maturity levels, so I personally wouldn't do it. Naturally, there will be an exception or two; I know a boy who has been out with mostly only girls 2 years older than him, but this is because he looks and acts in a way that would suggest he is several years older than his actual age. It's all down to personal preference at the end of the day
Thank you i will so keep this in mind! This guy he looks young, or his age but doesn't act a certain ... i can't determine his maturity level.. i mean i don't have a problem with it, but i haven't known him full or well enough! thanks again! :]


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