I don't know if he really likes me :S

[LastRedAppleStanding]

I've started talking to this boy who's a year older than me at 16, and i know he's not a virgin. Anyways, i've seen him twice now and when i saw him last Wednesday we both knew what we were after.

I mean, i'm a virgin and i wasn't ready for any of that. I'm looking for a relationship. But at the end of the really fun day, we started making out. Something, i have never actually done before, and i let him suck my tit.

Now, i don't regret it. And i asked him if he wanted to be with me, he said yes so then i asked him if he was willing to wait, and he said 'i don't know'.
He said he likes me and i'm special but it's complicated to his friends on Face Book, but i just don't know if he wants to be in a relationship with me and it's really confusing. I've never done this whole dating thing so i don't know what to expect.

He's really nice to me and we cuddled etc. And did what couples did, but do you think he's using me? xx

[Lu82]

He doesnt know if hes willing to wait and what do you exacly mean by "its complicated to his friends on facebook" I dont think he wants anything serious with you(sorry to put it like that).I think you should try to find another guy that would know what he wants and would be able to wait for you.

[how.we.operate.]

Be careful is an extremely important thing!
I ran into a guy that was too cute, did all the nice stuff, we made out a lot, and he decided to ask me out. I asked for time to think. When I asked about a few things and turned him down, he really made it seem like he was asking me out just for the sex. After that, he tried to use me whenever he wanted etc.

So DO be careful. Ask why it is complicated with his friends on Facebook. See if his reasoning makes sense. Also, he should be willing to wait if he does care. It does seem like he is looking for something not too serious...so if you want that then ok, but just think about it first.
I know that it is hard to judge what you should be doing and what you shouldn't, but do what you are comfortable with.

Also, just my view on this, you don't have to listen if you don't want to and I know it is looking a bit further ahead...but I lost my virginity early on to someone who ended up not caring. I really regret that and I wish I had waited and that I had found someone who actually cared about me. In my personal opinion, find a great guy that actually cares about you, don't waste it on someone who doesn't. You can't take your virginity back.

[jadamson]

He could be honestly torn between being with you (and waiting) OR being with someone else. Either way, the ball is obviously in his court and all you can do is wait.

[Jaden89]

The fact that he "doesn't know" if he can wait because of facebook friends sounds a bit off to me. I think the best thing for you to do is let him know that you really like him and would like to be with him but you really need to know if he can wait and you need a straight answer. If he cannot wait then chances are he's just not right for you and perhaps not very mature either. I hope this helps, good luck!

[m89c]

I don't think you should be with him