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Meant to be or not? - March 1st 2011, 05:29 PM

I have been in love with a guy at school for just over a year. I am in so deep it hurts physically to even think of him. His eyes, his hair, his smile, his voice, everything about him drives me head over heels. But i can't tell if he feels the same way. Some times he does other times he acts like he doesn't know i exist. I don't know what to do
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Re: Meant to be or not? - March 1st 2011, 05:44 PM

Nikkie,

I think that you should talk to this guy! You should create small talk with him. If you like him that much then you should go for it. And you should ask him whether or not he feels the same. I know that taking to a boy can be suppppperrr hard. Trust me, I've been there. But if you don't tell him then you will wonder "what if?", and miss out on an awesome opportunity. You can tell him anyway you want really. You should keep it casual as well. Don't tell him you're in love with him. That can really scare someone off. Just tell him you like him. Or maybe ask if he wants to hang out.

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If he doesn't like you back then you work on moving on. Life is short, no point in drawnig something out. If course it's going to hurt like hell, but guys are going to come and go. And sometimes our attraction to people come from feeling lonely. As cheesy as this sounds: if it's meant to be, then it will work out. You have to thnk about it like this: if he doesn't like you then it's probably because there is something/someone better for you further down the road.

If he does like you then yay! Just make sure you stay completely honest with yourself. Don't let your love for him blind you. It's easy to do, but you have to be strong. Get to know him better. Take things slowly. I would hate to see your heart be crushed.

Ultimately, don't let him send your mixed signals. Those are a waste of time, and emotion. If he starts to send you mixed signals then call him out on it! As him to be straight up with you. You deserve the truth. You deserve stability in a relationship.

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Re: Meant to be or not? - March 1st 2011, 10:06 PM

i'll keep this in mind next time i see him, thanks for the advice
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