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View Poll Results: Have you met a boyfriend/girlfriend on TH?
Yes 12 16.90%
No 50 70.42%
No, but wanting to... 9 12.68%
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TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 09:53 PM

I've seen a lot of posts where people have mentioned they've met partners on TH, so it's got me wondering how many of you really have met someone over this forum

Orrrr are you interested in meeting someone on here?

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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 10:03 PM

I've met someone on here

I'm currently in a relationship with someone on this site and I've met a few other users too but I just like them as friends


   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 10:05 PM

I've never even met a THer in real life, let alone started a relationship with one. I doubt it would be a great idea: the girls here have issues.




   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 10:05 PM

I haven't had a girlfriend that I have met through Teen Help but I have met some amazing friends through this site and they mean just as much as a girlfriend ever could.
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 10:17 PM

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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 10:25 PM

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I doubt it would be a great idea: the girls here have issues.

LOL .

I find online relationships so dumb. You can't see the other person in real life so what kind of relationship do you expect to have. I could just imagine one of them sweet talking each other. " Oh honey you type so articulate."



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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 10:45 PM

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Um, yes, I have met/started dating my girlfriend from here on December 11th, 2009 and Have met her irl a total of 8 times since March of 2010.


   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 10:55 PM

Hell yeah! The only chick I met on TH was the person who took my virginity! It was super awesome!



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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 11:06 PM

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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 11:07 PM

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Hell yeah! The only chick I met on TH was the person who took my virginity! It was super awesome!
Sweet. TH casual sex sounds way more fun than TH relationships. On a completely unrelated note, I think I have some PMs to send.




   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 11:11 PM

I've never had a relationship on TH. Would I? maybe. I'd find it a bit freaky as they would know way too much about me due to my posts/blogs.

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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 14th 2011, 11:21 PM

Have I dated someone here? No. I would like to. Does this person know. It? I hope not. I did not tell her, so as far as I know. Nope!
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 12:03 AM

At TeenHelp, on here, no. But I did meet the girl I call my fiancée these days on a forum... So I know the ins and outs of it.





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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 12:56 AM

No, and honestly I never ever would. I've nothing against online relationships as I know they work for some people, but I could never see myself getting with someone I'd met online, and I would never date someone from TH. This is the only place I feel I can be honest between blog posts and the 'say something' thread and general other threads. There's only one member I've ever even seen in real life but we wouldn't even really communicate outside of TH or possibly fb.
I mean, I love my boyfriend and we're very honest with each other,but that doesn't mean I'd be completely comfortable if he read all the threads I've posted in the R&D forum relating to him. :/ If I started seeing someone from TH it would no longer be somewhere for me to come and be myself, without holding back.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 03:29 AM

I agree with bitesize on the holding back bit... but I met my ex on TH and we had a relationship lasting round a year and a half. And I have met someone else I'm quite fond of. We're simply good friends but I do intend to meet him at some point. There's also someone I met on TH with whom I used to be very, very close, but we've drifted a bit, even though we still talk every now and again. Other than that, everyone I've met on TH, I've drifted away from/am no longer talking to, really.
   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 03:32 AM

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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 03:35 AM

Oye not my cup of tea....
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 03:39 AM

Yup I've been on relationships that started out because of TH. So yeah I've liked people on here to lol.


   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 04:23 AM

Have I had a relationship with someone on TH? Yes.
Did I ever meet them? No.
We were together for about 2 1/2 months.
We were most likely going to meet though.

& While some might feel like it's a bad thing to be with someone from TH because all your posts and stuff.... It can be a good thing also. I completely trusted the person I was in a relationship with. He was and still is my best friend. Not to mention, if I post how bad I was feeling here, I wouldn't have to tell him directly. He'd just know. And I didn't have to go explaining my entire past or anything. I have no reason to hide who I am from him.

& LostTeen011l; it's not exactly like that ("Oh honey you type so articulate"). With today's technology, the only thing long distance relationships are missing is physical contact. It's not all IM-ing, texts, emails... You can web cam and have phone calls also. Sure, sweet talking isn't going to be about hugs or kisses or holding hands or sex or anything that has to deal with physical contact. But there is sweet talking about what a great person they are and how happy you are that you are with them.

I only think that online long distance relationships will work if you're going to meet the person. If you're not going to meet the person that I see no reason to have the relationship.



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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 04:44 AM

I definitely regret all but one of my relationships on TH, whether it was just flirting or not. This is NOT the place to meet people. Any support website is not the place to meet a partner.



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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 04:49 AM

Ermmm... I'm real leery about online friendships to begin with, more so actual relationships. I only have a handful of online friendships across the web; and only one person goes to TH, and I knew that person before TH. (Heck, it was actually I who linked them here!)

I don't foresee me ever dating anyone here, but who knows... I always have said, if I'm thirty and single, then I'll resort to online dating. Online dating is my last resort. (:


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 05:12 AM

This is a support website, not a hookup site. There is an obscene amount flirting here sadly...

Anyways, no. Never. Ironically, I don't think I'd be able to date someone who needed to come to this site. They would be too needy/clingy/crazy for me.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 05:19 AM

I agree with you, Kyle, to a point.

Keep in my mind, not everyone is here for help.. some people here are here TO help.
Or, people here needed help at one time, have been here for years, and now just stick around to help.
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 07:22 AM

Noooo completely disagree with meeting people online but that's just me.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 07:28 AM

I've had an on-line relationship with a fellow user on TeenHelp.
We were together for about two and a half months (I wonder how many people will notice the similarity between my post, and another).
We were *probably* going to meet, but it was really too early in the relationship to decide.

I will likely never do it again, if only for the fact I won't be around TeenHelp much longer.
My relationship with _you guess the name here_ was.... fulfilling, to a point. It wasn't bad, mostly. It was awkward a hell of a lot of the time. And at the end, it was just... harmful, to both her and I.

I agree with a few posters above, Internet relationships can work for some people, and I have SEEN it work. But I can't do it, and I won't try again.

Kudos to all that can, however. TeenHelp may not be a place for meeting people in that way, but you do get to know people rather well, if you really try. It's a great thing.
   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 08:41 AM

I would have to agree with amiko (facade)..lol

finding a partner here on teenhelp is very beneficial because here we don't judge and we allow everyone to show there true colors. Thus most first impressions of people here are what they are.

I never had a girlfriend (or boyfriend :P) on teenhelp. Because although this site is a good way to start it, actually meeting someone is the hard part, especially when most of us live 500+ miles away from each other..

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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 09:03 AM

I never have, never would.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 06:56 PM

Well, due to my location this is the only place where I even really come in contact with people from out of the US, and do I love accents... any available Irish guys out there? Eh, no one's interested in the married lady with a kid anyway

Seriously though, even if I was single, I've aired way too much dirty laundry on this site to want to hook up with someone on here. This place is a safe haven for me where I can pretty much say whatever I'm thinking/feeling and even knowing someone in real life on here would give me reason to start watching what I say. No thanks. Plus I'm really not one for LDRs or strictly internet dating.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 07:10 PM

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A couple of thousand teenagers in one place and you find it sad there's flirting? I'm surprised this place isn't hornier than it is!

I haven't had any TH relationships. I'm not really close to anyone here, actually. But if something were to develop, I wouldn't say no to it.
   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 07:20 PM

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A couple of thousand teenagers in one place and you find it sad there's flirting? I'm surprised this place isn't hornier than it is!

I haven't had any TH relationships. I'm not really close to anyone here, actually. But if something were to develop, I wouldn't say no to it.
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As for me, I've never dated anyone on TH. There's right next to no Canadian guys here anyways, so any LDR would be difficult.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 07:25 PM

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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 07:25 PM

No, I don't like online relataionships purely on the "been there done that" basis. It really is not for me.

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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 15th 2011, 07:40 PM

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This is a support website, not a hookup site. There is an obscene amount flirting here sadly...


Flirting? On TH? The perpetrators should be banned immediately! Shameless hussies.



   
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 16th 2011, 02:00 AM

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Flirting? On TH? The perpetrators should be banned immediately! Shameless hussies.
I thought a little bit of flirting wouldn't be a big deal when I would deal with other people...but...

I started helping a girl, like letting her talk things out with me every day because she had such a bad childhood and I liked helping her. We eventually became close friends and discussed a lot of beliefs, etc. She fell hard for me. I wasn't even attracted to her (never showed me a picture or cammed or anything) and she lived in CA. Also I was starting to date someone in real life. I kept texting her, im-ing her, so we could stay close but she got insanely, INSANELY jealous and stopped talking to me out of anger.

The same thing happened with another girl, except she was even younger than the first and showed me a few pictures. She got really angry that I was just another guy and got around. So I'm tiny tiny tiny bit biased...but the 3 girls I've made serious friendships with, 2 of them fell for me and the other was gay.

From anecdotal experience (not a fundamental law) - I'd stay away from dating on TH. LDR's in and of themselves are a waste of time anyways, finding mentally unstable people or people who are addicting to playing psychologist...make it even worse.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 16th 2011, 02:19 AM

I thought I found someone here but due to terrible unforeseen circumstances it didn't work out. But I would certainly be happy if I found someone on here.
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 16th 2011, 02:45 AM

I want someone on here, quite on accident. I just started talking to this random girl on day and

And I would like to remind everyone the TH is NOT a dating site and shall not be operated like one (i.e. "I am Available.", "Hot or Not", Or dating profile threads) You can meet each other and have relationships for sure, but you can't be using teenhelp JUST for that.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 16th 2011, 06:17 AM

I met my fiance, who I now live with on here...


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 16th 2011, 12:38 PM

I've never been interested in pursuing a relationship that is mainly based online. I've done the long[ish] distance and hated it. Just hated hated hated it.
It's not the time I hate, it's the fact that I don't know when I'll get to see them. I'd rather they live close and I can choose when to see them.
I don't air my private life on here [except some things in the staff forums] so them knowing more about me than I would want isn't an issue.

As for the flirting, I'm a flirt, but I also know that it's all it is. Some girls won't, or they will think feelings are involved when they're not. Don't stop flirting, just find someone who knows that's all it is.

Oh and for other relationships, I have some freakin awesome friends on here, and my 'lil sis'. Who I couldn't love more even if she really was my sister.


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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 16th 2011, 01:54 PM

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Oh god just NO
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Re: TH relationships? :) - March 16th 2011, 02:33 PM

I'm right there with ya Lou. I'm a big flirt but I'd never date anyone from here. Online relationships are just creepy to me. I mean, I know people who have dated and it work out great but I also know that there's danger involved with it. I think this site is primarily here to help people get back on their feet. Anything else I feel is just so out of context. I know I'll be getting glares for this one. haha. For the people I know that this has worked for, kudos and you're adorable. There, everyones happy.



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