LOVE EXISTS OR NOT ?

[Kunal]

hi everyone i dont know, in which category i should post it so i am posting it here..


actually i am having a doubt "WHETHER THE LOVE EXISTS OR NOT ?"...
i know you may think i am a mad person...but really ....
i want to know that ...cause in my life till now, nothing good has happened ...

i liked a girl (she was the first girl for whom i have ever felt that way)..she was my friend but she rejected me ,she was my first love so you can understand how i felt(still have feelings for her even after knowing shes in a relationship) ...and now...i have a friend who plays with love means he often tells me he has fallen in love "VERY OFTEN" the thing is i see him with a new girl every 2-3 months...so just a thought came in my mind "when i loved a girl truly she rejected me and my friend who just plays with love gets a new love " why is that?

i completely feel depressed whenever this thought comes to my mind....
but i think i am just jealous of him cause i am very lonely since my childhood and no one ever got to me so close to make me feel special....


i just dont know how i should feel because sometime i get so much depressed and sometimes i find it funny......

[guillotine_blades]

Love exists. I see it and feel it every morning when I wake up beside the man of my dreams, every meal we share, every kiss and embrace between us, and every night as we lay beside each other. Give it time! It sometimes take many failed attempts at it before your true love finds you. But just remember the more times it has failed, the more appreciative you will be of it when you find the real thing. As for your friend that finds "love" every few months. He finds Lust every few months no doubt, but real love takes time to develop, and you will go through thick and thin to keep it alive.

Best of luck to you, be patient, you will find love eventually

[tamz]

Hey,

I wouldn't worry about your friend, everybody's experience is different. And although he says he has a new love every few months, he isn't really *in love*. Love takes time to develop. I have very much liked people in the past and been romantically involved with them but the only person I have every truly been in love with is my current partner.

Whenever I used to get down about *love* I always remembered the lyrics from a song: I believe you can't appreciate real love til you've been burned.
I think we're much more appreciative of the good when we've been through the bad. Hold in there, you will find her one day. And when you do, it will be the most amazing feeling you have ever experienced. She *is* out there somewhere.

[WillO'Wisp]

Your friend is probably getting easy girls who will take him. He can't keep going on that way. Eventually it'll come back and bite him, so he's not going to have good luck much longer. Karma comes back.
As for you, I can tell you love does exsist and sometimes you have to go through a few rough bumps to get to the smooth sailing of the road. Sometimes you stall and have to wait for someone to come along. But someone eventually does notice you and take interest in you and want to be with you, and love you and treat you as good as you deserve. And never settle for less than what you deserve.

[tamz]

Originally Posted by *Nocturnal~Symphony*

And never settle for less than what you deserve.

I definitely agree with this! It's the best advice anyone could ever give you regarding relationships.

[Nicole!]

Hey there K,
If you look around, everyone gets married. They either have or believe that they have found 'the one'. Love does exist, and its hard to fathom especially after rejection, but you just have to be patient and love will come find you.
Your friend isn't in love, as others said he is in lust. He loves how the girls look, but he doesn't love them in the deep way that he is pretending he is.

I promise you will find love <3

[bitesize]

Love definitely exists.
And often you have to wait for it to happen, but that just makes it all the more worth it when it does.