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Angry Wow. This sucks. - April 3rd 2011, 05:05 PM

So i've talked about this guy before, i like him, i'm living with him because my mom moved in with his mom for a little while until we get a place of our own.

Well for a few weeks he was all flirty and touchy-feely and quite sexual and stuff, and the past week he hasn't tried anything, and after something that happened i think he has a girlfriend, which would piss me off so much, and i'm just so sick and tired of him yanking my chain every time i turn around! And he was talking about girls playing games... He must be a girl then. ._. So i told myself that i was sick and tired of his bullshit and i'm going to get over him. Well last night he was all flirty and touchy feely again. Granted, it was 12:30 at night and we were tired, but still. I just don't know what to do, i really really like him, and he acts like he likes me too, but then the next thing i know he's all distant and stuff and then i think he has a girlfriend.

I'm just sick and tired of this...
   
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Re: Wow. This sucks. - April 3rd 2011, 05:14 PM

Why would you be pissed off if he had a girlfriend? I could understand you getting upset if he had a girlfriend and he continued to do those things with you. But, to be pissed off because he has a girlfriend (no added baggage), then that's being a little selfish.

You need to make up your mind and ask him whether or not he has a girlfriend and whether or not you think you two have a shot at being together. Stop beating around the bush and playing childish games with each other. It's time something is done.











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Re: Wow. This sucks. - April 3rd 2011, 05:18 PM

Confront him and just ask whats up.
It's not really that hard, no mystery necessary.
SAMPLE CONVO:
You: Whats going on, you keep getting all touchy feely, acting like you like me and then BAM the next day you want nothing to do with me. What DA FUCK.
Him: Uhhh...
You: I need an explanation, talk.
Him: -Explanation-

DONE. Case Closed.

Have at it.


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Re: Wow. This sucks. - April 3rd 2011, 05:42 PM

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Why would you be pissed off if he had a girlfriend? I could understand you getting upset if he had a girlfriend and he continued to do those things with you. But, to be pissed off because he has a girlfriend (no added baggage), then that's being a little selfish.

You need to make up your mind and ask him whether or not he has a girlfriend and whether or not you think you two have a shot at being together. Stop beating around the bush and playing childish games with each other. It's time something is done.

I'd be pissed off if he acted like that with me, and he has a girlfriend. If he has a girlfriend, then ok, but to act like that with me? And I've told him i liked him before, but he hasn't done or said anything about it.





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Confront him and just ask whats up.
It's not really that hard, no mystery necessary.
SAMPLE CONVO:
You: Whats going on, you keep getting all touchy feely, acting like you like me and then BAM the next day you want nothing to do with me. What DA FUCK.
Him: Uhhh...
You: I need an explanation, talk.
Him: -Explanation-

DONE. Case Closed.

Have at it.

Haha ok, thanks.
   
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Re: Wow. This sucks. - April 3rd 2011, 05:46 PM

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Haha ok, thanks.
You're welcome.
Be sure to let us know what he says


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Re: Wow. This sucks. - April 3rd 2011, 07:57 PM

I still don't think it's a good idea to pursue something with a boy you live with.

You can already imagine how awkward things would be if he stopped flirting with you and started dating someone else... now try to imagine how awkward things would be if you two dated, then broke up. I mean, you LIVE with the guy! There would be no escaping him. Not to mention that your parents would probably be furious if they found out the two of you were groping each other right under their noses... it could hurt your parents' friendship and cause one family to move out in order to avoid further conflict/embarrassment.





   
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Re: Wow. This sucks. - April 3rd 2011, 10:20 PM

Yeah, that's true.. He's going to move out sometime soon, and so are my mom and i, but i see what you mean..

And since he seems to always to making me mad in some way (even if he's always making me laugh all the time) i guess that wouldn't be a good idea to be with someone to makes me mad...right?
   
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Re: Wow. This sucks. - April 4th 2011, 04:43 AM

Depends on the type of mad and whether or not you want to deal with it.


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