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Heart Of Hearts
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Any advice for a misunderstood person -
April 16th 2011, 12:35 AM
I am someone who is always judged, misunderstood, interpreted in a bad way. Not as a person but how I look. I have been approached by too many girls who are interested in me, but the ones who I admire see me for how I look. It may seem weird for someone to use their looks as an excuse but thats the problem. I like girls who are just like me, intelligent, out-going, dress causally and are shy, but they all give me weird looks when I look at them or approach them. Ive had a few girls as friends who I like but not very many, because my looks seem to drawn more bad then good. Even though my friends and me are nerdy, shy, school focused (education) i get frustrated when I can never seem to be on the right side of where I would like to be judged. I have been depressed recently after a letter I wrote to a girl I liked, but that and my nervousness were interpreted wrong, and my attemps to apologize resulted in me being called a creepster, which is how im judged based on my looks. I would like any tips on what I can do to show everyone who I am, and not get misunderstood, because I have done almost everything to try to get a true image of me out there.
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Re: Any advice for a misunderstood person -
April 16th 2011, 06:20 AM
Honestly, it shouldn't matter to you how your perceived. Caring about what other people think is so unsexy. So them by not changing yourself. These people are only saying the things they are because they want to get a rise out of you, which I think they have. Be the bigger person and go for girls that you know will like you for you.
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Heart Of Hearts
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Name: Connor
Age: 18
Gender: Male
Location: U.S
Posts: 76
Join Date: April 15th 2011
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Re: Any advice for a misunderstood person -
April 16th 2011, 02:29 PM
Its been this way about 3 years, then and now I haven't changed a thing about me except how opem I am to making friends and the maturity aspect of me. I know that worrying or caring to much can be a bad thing which has unfortunately led me into this. Its only become of recent that I thought about this and that I realized that if people do not like me for who I am then its best just to let them pass on. I'm hoping maybe I could soon start a relationship with a girl just so I have ideas on what friends I have truly think of me and how much they care. Thanks for the tip.
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