Cheating?

[NickeyD]

So .....this girl has been talking to me today .....my GF came back from out of town today too and but now im tempted with this other girl. Im trying hard not to do anything cuz I love my GF so much but.....idk GAHH!

[Dedalus]

I'm probably not the best person to give advice, but its just one of those things. You'll just have to see if you have the moral fibre not to get with her and stay loyal to your girlfriend. I suggest you don't get with her, life gets a lot harder when you do this shit. I mean, at the most you're going to get a very limited time of enjoyment with this new girl, and then a much longer period of guilt and unhappiness. The scales do, unfortunately, only tip one way in these kind of things - so if you'd prefer this feeling to one of guilt and shame then just stick to wishing or dreaming that you had gotten with her.

[MattiLikesToHelp]

Just imagine how you would feel if you actually did cheat and you had to explain to your gf why you cheated while she cried uncontrolbably not being able to speak. If you like your girlfriend alot and youve been dating along time then go go screwing up your relationship. Think about it. You go hook up with this girl then the deed is done then what?? You go home and feel like garbage?? My girlfriend kinda cheated on me. It wasnt even sex but i still felt like complete trash after, im a guy and i understand where your coming from so dont mess this up. you have a girlfriend that loves you alot.

why would you destroy love for lust?? what lasts longer? lust or love?? what destroys the world?? love or lust?? dont contribute to the worlds faults. I know your smarter than that

[Gaia]

Do you love your girlfriend?
Having attraction towards someone else is not a big deal, its how you act on that attraction that is. If you love your girlfriend, don't cheat on her, and I'll quote my most over used saying on these boards "never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.". Have a serious think about what your feelings are towards your girlfriend and if you really want to lose that. This other girl may just be a passing fancy, because she's new and exciting. It doesn't mean that she is a better fit for you.

[ChrisDiCarlo]

Mate I am going through the exact same thing here right now. I madly in love with my girlfriend but now I have a crush on another girl who I have spoken to for a bit and now claims to be in love with me. :/. I know I would never cheat on my girlfriend, and you shouldn't either, that is the worst option for this situation.

My advice is definitely do not cheat, but if this really getting to you, focus and spend more time with your girlfriend, go out places with her, spend a lot of time with her and eventually you will get over this other girl.

I hope my advice is helpful. Feel free to message me if you have any questions mate.

[losing touch.]

Figure out whether you really want to be with your girlfriend. To me, being in a relationship means you are fully committed to that one person.. So if you're not you might need to reconsider how things stand between you. Don't mess her around, if you want to break up and date other girls then do it.. There's nothing wrong with that, but don't cheat on her.

[Guru]

Think about how you would feel if she cheated on you with some other guy who she liked. I say save yourself a hell of a lot of trouble and just stay away from the other girl. It will help you in the long run, if you do love your girlfriend.