Female Advice Preferred: ugh! bad situation....

[XHaters_Make_me_famousX]

so there is a 75% percent chance that i am pregnant with this guy that i used to like, but i hate him now. he doesnt like me. and he is trying to get with my best friend when he has a gf. i dont know what to do. we both want a baby... just not with each other. so what should i do?
any advice??

[KittKatt]

Hmm, thats a toughy. I was thinking maybe you could just wait a few weeks and see if you want the child. You can have him or her adopted to a family. But if you think you can not go through with it because of your body type or something else including school drama. I would say no, honestly sit down and think. Do you want an abortion or to carry the child to full and have him or her adopted. I hope this helps.

[XHaters_Make_me_famousX]

well first off all i dont believe in abortion or adoption, and i've kinda always wanted a baby. so if i am pregnant i will keep it. and i missed my period already. so idk
i havent even told him about this! he'd be pissed off!

[tamz]

Hey love, The best thing you can do right now is get yourself a pregnancy test. You may not even be pregnant so there's no point worrying about it until you find out for definite. There are all sorts of reasons why you may have missed your period. xx

[how.we.operate.]

I have a lot of the same advice as the people above.
First thing is to get a pregnancy test! This is the only thing that can tell you yes/no and then you can decide from there.
Secondly, I respect the fact that you don't believe in abortion or adoption, but I do so please don't jump the gun on me! I just want to give you some advice that happens to go against what you believe, so here it goes.
You are 17. Are you going to go to college? Can you afford a baby at 17? Would your family accept this? How would you manage child care if you are going to finish school?
Having a baby is a lot of money and it means a lot of time committed to the baby. Think about your future and ask yourself if you could do all of that? My grandma got pregnant around your age, but she didn't have many options. Her family wasn't accepting and she ran away in order to have the baby. She put my mom up for adoption because she couldn't support herself and a child and she would not be accepted in her family. Because of this, my mother got the chance to grow up with a loving family who wanted a baby and she met my dad because of the adoption. I would not be here if she wasn't put up for adoption.
Times have changed and I don't know your situation, but please do know adoption can bring miracles.
The only reason why I'd consider abortion is for those that cannot have the baby-as in they would be kicked out and they don't have the money to raise a child.

Knowing that, please do try to think about these things.

Also, if you are pregnant, then you should tell the guy. Yeah he might hate you and you might hate him, but if it is his child as well, then he deserves to know.

Best of luck!

EDIT:
Also, you have a lifetime ahead of you to have a baby. Don't feel like this is it.