WHAT?!....What?! Acid?.....What?

[StrigidaeofChrono]

Uhhhhhhh....... uhhhhhh.... holly cow! On facebook, my boyfriend has a message to a drug dealer asking if he can get acid for a camping trip with him and his friends. He said only weed and light beers. Nothing to serious. OBJIOUSLY that was a lie.

I had really started to trust him. But no. I need advice on breaking up with him and staying strong about it.

[TheBabyEater]

First of all, I'd make the decision to leave him when you're not still THIS angry about it. Or there's a good chance you'll regret it, even if you know it's for the right reasons. I recently broke up with my boyfriend when I was still really angry about things, and I regretted it in MINUTES. Granted, we're still broken up, but we might get back together in a few months if he ever manages to fix his life up a bit.

Either way, if you do decide to go through with it, you just really need to do it. Don't stall, don't hope he'll get better, just do it. Meet up with him somewhere neutral, or give him a call if it's long distance, and try to be as CALM about it as you can. Just tell him you're not happy with the relationship, why you're breaking up with him, and leave it at that. Don't let it turn into a huge fight, that's just not worth your time.

Then just don't contact him, ignore phone calls or text ext until you know YOU'RE ready to talk to him. Just keep in mind why you did it, and that you are your OWN person. You don't need some guy to help you through anything.

[tasha555666]

Wow thats deep...He's lied and your not happy,if your going for a full break then have a spare new number delete your facebook account for a couple of months (delete him from it of course) give it a clear break..
Otherwise you'll end up breaking it off and with him having contact to you will make it harder,only you can do this and your way really,these are tips but id give it a clear break,make youself stronger in the break up.Its not gonna be easy thou,you'll probs be crying through the night missing him,looking back missing good times,but if your mind is set on breaking it off fully,do it right.

[Ambiance]

Sounds like a good decision, plus I think I've read other posts you made about your relationship (could be wrong, picture looks familiar). Think it over. Make sure that's what you want. Once you've made your decision, STICK TO IT. Think of the reasons you're leaving him whenever you start to get upset, remember that you will be okay, you are your own person, ect. ect. And, frankly, you're probably better off without him. Just tell him, "We've had a good relationship, you meant a lot to me, I want to say thank you for being there for me when you were and for caring about me. However, the issue is that (insert everything you need to here), and that's not what I'm looking for in a relationship, so we can't be together anymore. I hope someday we can be friends, but we probably shouldn't talk for a while so we can both have some time to get over this."

[vivid2012]

Originally Posted by tasha555666

Wow thats deep...He's lied and your not happy,if your going for a full break then have a spare new number delete your facebook account for a couple of months (delete him from it of course) give it a clear break..
Otherwise you'll end up breaking it off and with him having contact to you will make it harder,only you can do this and your way really,these are tips but id give it a clear break,make youself stronger in the break up.Its not gonna be easy thou,you'll probs be crying through the night missing him,looking back missing good times,but if your mind is set on breaking it off fully,do it right.

Yup, that's true.

[FlyingTrue]

I suggest printing out what he typed before he gets a chance to delete it, with something this serious he definitely does not deserve you. If you feel threatened definitely go to the police.