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Question Need First "Date" Tips! - August 31st 2011, 10:38 PM

So this really cute guy down the street from me asked me to get lunch with him Friday. This is my first "date" in a while and I need some tips. I know I need to just be my self and everything. I am pretty interested in this guy and I want to keep his attention. Any tips? Guys, what is a total "turn off" to you on a first date?
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Re: Need First "Date" Tips! - August 31st 2011, 11:02 PM

Under no circumstances should you ever bring a friend on a date. Other than that: look pretty, act cute, laugh at his jokes, and go home with him if he asks (well, OK, only if you're comfortable with it).



   
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Re: Need First "Date" Tips! - August 31st 2011, 11:03 PM

I would say that the important thing is to relax and have fun. Don't talk or do anything that feels "heavy". Be happy around him is the most important thing you can do (in my humble opinion) on a first date.


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Re: Need First "Date" Tips! - September 4th 2011, 03:03 AM

Just be yourself and don't be nervous! I'm sure everything will go well(:


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Re: Need First "Date" Tips! - September 4th 2011, 02:36 PM

The biggest turn off is someone who just sits there and answers questions with yes or no. Ask him about himself. Guys love to talk about themselves. Ask him what he thinks about things (anything). Volunteer information about yourself and be honest if you disagree with him or don't like something. That puts him at ease and makes him like to talk to you. If it looks like you're not going to hit it off, admit it, finish the date in a friendly manner and go your own way.


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Re: Need First "Date" Tips! - September 5th 2011, 12:40 AM

Keep conversation natural, try to talk about common interests that you two have. Other than that, just keep it light and happy, it's a first date. (:

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