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O.M.G Dating my friends EX-Boyfriend -
September 20th 2011, 10:29 PM
Okay so theres this guy his names Van he's 17 in grade 11 and from Toronto Canada he just started coming to school yesterday but he finally started talking to me today so yano we got to know eachother and stuff and he seems reaaly cool
not even an hour later after we started talking he popped the question so yano i was like yeah i kinda like you to so now were dating
but out of all this excitement hes the ex boyfirend of my current friend OOOPS! although she has a boyfriend and they have been broken up 4 a while now its still not honoring the girl code in my head i was like F*** the code this dudes friggin HOT! but i did talk to her and she did say it was okay for us 2 date but dating your friends ex is never the "BEST SITUATION" so any advice on how to go about it....
(btw i found out after we started dating)
Re: O.M.G Dating my friends EX-Boyfriend -
September 21st 2011, 01:26 AM
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Originally Posted by lilly242
although she has a boyfriend and they have been broken up 4 a while now its still not honoring the girl code in my head i was like F*** the code this dudes friggin HOT! but i did talk to her and she did say it was okay for us 2 date but dating your friends ex is never the "BEST SITUATION" so any advice on how to go about it....
(btw i found out after we started dating)
I think it is completely fine. Your friend is now in a new relationship and told you it was okay. She is clearly over him, so don't worry about the code. That code is really just to make sure that you don't end up losing your friend for a guy, but since she is okay with it then I see no problem. Especially since you didn't know, it would be a silly reason to break up with him just because he used to date your friend.
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