I love my best friend but she's not looking for a serious Relationship

[Nitro]

So, let's say my Girl-best friend is called Diana.

I know her very well and It's the kind of girl I would marry when I'm 20-30, we have a ton in common and etc. I feel like she's the girl.

But right now (we're 17) she isn't looking for anything serious. She's been together with several guys and as far as I see she has them as a boy-friend, she likes to hang out with them but she always gets in a fight with them or something else.

When she drinks too much she starts making out with everyone, so you could say she's pansexual.
On the other side, I'm doubtfully bisexual, I'm kind of confused. I never had a relationship with someone and I don't enjoy looking at my Friend's relationships when I know I could do better than them. When I get angry I usually feel like she's being slutty.
However I'm scared of going ahead and being with her until something happens and we loose everything. Including our friendship.

Is there something wrong with me or is everyone around me wrong by having this worthless relationships based on nothing and all this making out with everyone?

[Dr.Bobby]

Nitro, in spite of your strong attraction to this girl, it might be best to broaden your horizons a bit and get some more experience. You're too infatuated with her, it seems like you've lost perspective. Having new experiences will let some fresh air and sunshine in there, you need to clean things out, it's affecting your judgment.

Just an an FYI, though, a girl who goes to a bar and under the influence starts fooling around with strangers isn't a 'Pan sexual', they're promiscuous, they have bad judgment, they're engaging in risky behavior. And a guy who hasn't been in relationships and can't tolerate watching others have what they don't (and in worse quality) doesn't mean you're bi. What both suggest is that you need to get out there and get more experience so you have a more accurate sense of yourself, and other people.

[Nicole!]

Honestly it sounds like right now she is just into some flings. She either doesn't want to be tied down in a relationship, or saying she isn't looking for a serious one was her way of turning you down politely. If she drinks a lot and makes out with lots of random guys, then it sounds to me like shes not all that decent. I think it would be best for you to move on and find someone new, after all you can't make someone be in a relationship with you.