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mixed messages - October 1st 2011, 07:47 PM

so there is this guy that i really like and i thought we had been talking for like the past month or so but recently he has been distant. the last time i saw him he was drunk and he told me that he liked me so i thought he would continue to talk to me more and such and that we would see each other again. but then i realized how when he is sober he doesn't pay me the same kind of attention that he does when he is drunk. i am confused and i really like him and thought he was a good guy but now i just don't know what to do. i hate to be the one contacting him all the time...
   
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Re: mixed messages - October 1st 2011, 07:55 PM

Hey hun, as hard at it is, I think the best thing to do would be to forget about him. Or just be friends. It seems like he's too busy being drunk to care about a wonderful girl like you. You deserve someone who will love and care about you and not always be drunk. I know its hard but you have to move on to a better guy. Maybe one day you guys will be together but for now its best to go your separate ways. Private Message me if you want to talk more!


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Re: mixed messages - October 4th 2011, 05:02 AM

Being in a relationship with a person who is waisted super often is hard. I'd look for someone who shows the same amount of interest as you do. Find some one who really adores you.


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