Love Triangle and Games

[Angeal]

Okay to start from the begining me and my boyfriend have been off and on since the 9th grade, but we've decided that were in this for the long run. He asked me to marry him and I said yes, but there's one problem to the "happy ending." He's the father figure to the daughter of his ex girlfriend and she basically holds that against him, by saying if he doesn't do something(what she tells him)then he can't see his daughter.

So what I need advice on is this. For the last two weeks around her we've been acting like were broken up because she doesn't want him around me, and it's makeing it kind of hard. I don't know what to do, I mean I don't know if I should tell him its over or try to work through this, which is what I want, but everyone is telling me I should break up with him, that I deserve better than what he's offering me. So yea.

[victoriabankson]

you cant help who you love and you need to tell him how you feel if you both want to be in this in the long run then you need to handle these bumps in the road granted theres going to be a lot more get and older adult involved with the problem with the custody of his daughter good luck pm me any time ill always listen

[Aletheia*]

If he isn't going to try to compromise with his ex-girlfriend, then he isn't worth marrying. You're his girlfriend, the person he's going to spend the rest of your life with, and his ex-girlfriend should respect that. It's not up to her whom he dates, but it is up to her if he see's his 'daughter'. He could try to fight for custody, but since he isn't her biological daughter, this would be extremely difficult to do.

However, if he isn't willing to let his ex-girlfriend know you're together, he doesn't sound like the type of person you should want to spend the right of your life with.