Ha, it's a long story..

[risaStitchezgroo]

Ohkay, so, this iz how it started.
It was last year, in 8th grade. I met this girl. She was an honest person that always spoke her mind about anything and everything. And one day she started talking to me on Facebook (ofcourse). She invited me to her birthday party, I went, and I guess we just started off as friends. Then I had a meltdown and attempted suicide and went to a psychiatric (I think that's how you spell it..) unit in a hospital. At the time, me and this girl had gotten a tiny bit closer. My mom liked her, and assumed that it would be okay if she told the girl what I did. When she told me that's what she did, I had a little freak out on the inside. I didn't really know this girl, and I wondered if she would keep it a secret. When I got out of the hospital, we became inseperable. We told eachother everything, and hung out as much as we could. She became my Ashy, and I became her Risa. Then, we were texting one night, and she toldme that she thought SHE was going to attempt suicide. I told my mom and we called the cops. She went to the hospital for a week, and duringthat week, I ended up going back to the hospital for a week. Suprisingly enough, she forgave me for what I did. And we got even closer. Then over this last summer I realized that I'm Pansexual. I spent the whole summer trying to figure out who I liked, I was very confused. I started out having a crush on my other close friend. Then, Ashy moved in with her dad in a different town. She didn't have a phone anymore, so we couldn't text eachother, and we only hung out every two weeks. A week after she had moved, I realized I had feelings for her. Three weeks after I realized that, she moved back in with her mom, in my town. I had another meltdown and blurted out to her that I felt that way. And, suprisingly, she said that she had been feeling that way about me for a month. We didn't start dating, kind of. I was still confused about my feelings and I didn't know what to do. Things started getting awkward between us. Then a week after we admitted our feelings for eachother, Ashy was depressed because her aunt was going to die, and I was trying to comfort her. She freaked out on me, called me a creep and an attention whore. It was a nasty fight. It's been two weeks since that fight, we've only talked twice in that time, and it always ended badly. She was my best friend, and I'm not sure if I still have feelings for her. Maybe it wasn't meant to be? Maybe she was never meant to be my best friend? I don't know what to do.
Should I ignore her?
Should I try, again, to fix this?
Iz it even worth trying to fix?

[Aletheia*]

Should I ignore her?

Definitely not. When someone is going through a difficult time in their life, especially dealing with the death of a family member, they're bound to act and react to things differently than they normally would. Ignoring her isn't going to solve anything nor is it going to fix the problem. Death isn't an easy thing to deal with, and you should continue to try to be there for her.

Should I try, again, to fix this?

Give it some time. Let her grieve the loss of her loved one, and then try to contact her again. A grief process might take some more time than you might think, so wait a week and try to talk to her. Explain that you're sorry for everything, and that you want to try to fix the friendship that you had. If she's willing, just take it from there.

I think it's pretty obvious from what I said: I think it's worth it.

[risaStitchezgroo]

Well, when I talked to her last week she said that she doesn't even like me as a friend anymore. And, honestly, she was very dramatic, so maybe it's better that me and her aren't friends? /:

[katie4evrr1]

before you all out cut her out of your life you need to remember she is being this way because she is stuggling in her life. loseing a family member can destroy someone on the inside. thats why she is acting this way. When my parents divorced my sister basically lost her mind and was always aggresive. (at the time she was only 7 or 8 years old) she had issues making friends and hated my mom. sometimes she would just hit me and i wouldnt hit back cuz i knew why she felt this way.

Your friend is hurting on the inside and she is just trying to push people who are close to her away. forget the whole relationship thing and focus on getting her back to a safer place, so that there are no more attempts at suicide.
Go apologize even if you did nothing wrong and focus on comforting her. If i am missing any info that copuld have made this responce unuseful let me know. Also feel free to PM me anytime, im on usually everyday

[how.we.operate.]

I agree with what was said-give it time, but don't just ignore it.

It is hard to go through a process where you know that you are going to lose someone...and sometimes you do lash out. Some react where they just want to be alone, others want someone there, and more.
I believe that she is going through a tough time and her emotions are just flying all over.

I think you should send her a message just letting her know you are there for her if she needs it, but you will leave her be.
My feelings are that you should let her come to you. Sometimes, space is needed and you just need that time for yourself. I'd say let her know you are there, that you are willing to wait, and what not.
Don't be pushy...be kind. She is going through a lot, so it may take time.

[risaStitchezgroo]

Thanks guys.