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booty call? - October 13th 2011, 06:56 PM

so i have come to agreements with this guy that we are friends with benefits for now but i feel like he is never going to initiate us actually doing that...in other words inviting me over. im worried i came across as a slut over text when we discussed this and last time i saw him was fine...but i was sick so nothing happened obviously. is it needy/desperate for me to be the one to initiate seeing him to hook up...or is that better so that i have control of the situation

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Re: booty call? - October 13th 2011, 07:05 PM

Yeah, it's fine for you to initiate.



   
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Re: booty call? - October 13th 2011, 10:09 PM

I agree, its okay for you to be the one to start it. Just find a time that works for him and go from there. Just be careful.


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Re: booty call? - October 13th 2011, 10:32 PM

It's okay to initiate. We can't expect our significant others or friends with benefits, in your case, to initiate every time we want to hook up. It's not how it works.











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Re: booty call? - October 14th 2011, 12:47 AM

It's the 21st century. You can do that. He may be reluctant to for fear of being accused of only wanting you for sex. So you can make the call without it reflecting badly on you in any way.


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Re: booty call? - October 15th 2011, 07:17 AM

If you want to initiate it then go for it, he has already intimated that he wants to. Also for a guy it's a real turn on to know that a girl wants him in that way and is prepared to come onto him to get it.

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Re: booty call? - October 16th 2011, 12:05 PM

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If you want to initiate it then go for it, he has already intimated that he wants to. Also for a guy it's a real turn on to know that a girl wants him in that way and is prepared to come onto him to get it.

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