Female Advice Preferred: Is looks everything???

[ronymajani]

I'm 14 year old and around 1.6 meters tall and I way XXX so I'm kinda fat (not that much just abit above average) and at school (private school, I'm grade 10 and my class only has 22 children) I kinda act childish but out of school I'm mature and I'm serious when it comes to girls and I want to ask a girl out but i'm afraid that she (or any girl in my class) won't go out with me cause they don't know me that well and I'm not hot or something but there are girls a bit fatter than me but still I'm afraid that I'll be rejected so I'm asking do girls go out with guys like me????

[Brandon]

Around 14, girls are usually pretty shallow...but not as shallow as they were in middle school. Over time, women will develop more realistic expectations of boyfriend material, and therefore you'll have more opportunity as you get older. 14 is still pretty young, so you got plenty of time to worry about that shit later. The point is that looks aren't everything. Women like guys with confidence. If you feel inadequate because of girls with celebrity infatuations, don't let that shit get to you. Feel good about yourself. Work out your muscles and eat healthy. If you continue to smile because you have confidence in yourself, a woman WILL take note of that and will give you an opportunity for a relationship. For now, don't even stress it bro.

[Aletheia*]

There is already a thread with this question that is still open. You can refer to that thread for most of the answers, instead of us having to repeat ourselves. You may find that thread here: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f9-re...s-about-looks/

And just so you're aware, posting of weight numbers isn't allowed on TeenHelp since our members may find it triggering.

[ronymajani]

sorry it's just that i keep forgetting to add details and I'm trying to write the question in different forms so sorry I wrote it 4 different ways I apologize I didn't know that please accept my sincere apology.

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by ronymajani

sorry it's just that i keep forgetting to add details and I'm trying to write the question in different forms so sorry I wrote it 4 different ways I apologize I didn't know that please accept my sincere apology.

No reason to fret. You didn't know there was another thread, and you didn't know about the weight numbers. No harm done.

[dancefever18]

I'm 14 also, and a girl. For me and every other girl I know, looks attract us but its the guy's personality and actions that make us stay with him. Give it a shot, the only bad thing that can happen is if she says no. But it sounds like you have a really good chance so I would just try. You never know unless you try(: Hope this helps!

[Chris.]

You have to take chances!

You will miss 100% of the shots that you never take!

Just try, and you will be rejected, and you will also be accepted, either way you will eventually have to deal with that answer. I know its hard to do, but I personally was the same way. Shy, quite, and never said a word. Once I got to highschool I decided I would be different and I was. Now I have WAY more female friends than male, and I have great people in my life, and those I occasionally go on a date with. You just have to take chances! You will fail many times, but you will also succeed.

Goodluck my friend!

[Skeleton]

Not all girls like guys just for there looks so you should definitely take a chance and go for it because if you don't, you won't know what could have been and the worst that could happen is that she says no and if she does, at least you can say you tried and there is plenty more fish in the sea.