TeenHelp



You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!

We hope you consider joining us and hope to see you around!


TeenHelp Features
HelpLINK
Articles Videos

Search TeenHelpAdvanced


Relationships and Dating Ask here for advice on dates, break-ups and other relationship problems.

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
cho Offline
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
cho's Avatar
 
Name: Hannah
Gender: Female

Posts: 49
Join Date: April 13th 2009

Univeristy - November 27th 2011, 02:29 AM

So anyone following my threads will know that my boyfriend goes to a different University and I get pretty insecure about it. Sometimes though I just need reassurance to make it a little easier and so I guess that's what I'm asking for now.

It's normal for him to go to parties and kegers with his new friends on the weekends right? As long as we both trust eachother I shouldnt be feeling anxious about this?
   
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
cho Offline
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
cho's Avatar
 
Name: Hannah
Gender: Female

Posts: 49
Join Date: April 13th 2009

Re: Univeristy - November 27th 2011, 02:36 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chair View Post
what's he studying?

What's that got to do with anything?
   
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
Nicole! Offline
Adrians my Favorite, Forever

Jeez, get a life!
***********
 
Nicole!'s Avatar
 
Name: Nicole
Age: 16
Gender: Female
Location: Seattle

Posts: 7,210
Join Date: October 14th 2010

Re: Univeristy - November 27th 2011, 03:14 AM

It is normal, many college guys will go out to parties. You just have to trust him and have good communication and know that he will be completely honest with you.



Buddy|Live Help Operator|HelpLink Mentor|Social Networking Team
Relationships&Dating Mod|Lifestyle Mod|Media&Entertainment Mod
Performance Committee
  Send a message via AIM to Nicole! Send a message via MSN to Nicole! Send a message via Skype™ to Nicole! 
  (#4 (permalink)) Old
Koharuchan Offline
Drama Llama for life!

I've been here a while
********
 
Koharuchan's Avatar
 
Name: Haru
Age: 18
Gender: Female
Location: My Iraw battlecruiser

Posts: 1,122
Join Date: March 20th 2011

Re: Univeristy - November 27th 2011, 03:22 AM

Just try to stay in contact with him; spend time with him on the weekends, maybe join him at a party he's going to with his friends. It will probably help ease your insecurities. Most importantly, you should trust him. Trust is one of the most important foundations of a relationship.


Though you may sleep through half the day,
I know I'm in your heart even as you snore away.
I love my big sleepy bear.
No great artist ever sees things as they really are. If he did, he would cease to be an artist. -Oscar Wilde
Buddy since 12/25/11Self Expressions mod since 4/23/12 Helplink mentor since 5/9/12
   
  (#5 (permalink)) Old
Chair Offline
I'm a chair.
Average Joe
***
 
Chair's Avatar
 
Name: Chair FritzFurniture
Gender: monoecious
Location: Some dark warehouse

Posts: 161
Join Date: October 25th 2011

Re: Univeristy - November 27th 2011, 04:13 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by cho View Post
What's that got to do with anything?
A lot. Gives an idea of what kind of people he may be partying with.
   
  (#6 (permalink)) Old
Aletheia* Offline
Proud Military Girlfriend

Jeez, get a life!
***********
 
Aletheia*'s Avatar
 
Name: Shannon
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Location: IRAW!

Posts: 5,131
Join Date: March 31st 2010

Re: Univeristy - November 27th 2011, 05:40 PM

Normal. My boyfriend went to school only a half hour away, but him and his buddies had parties all the time when I wasn't around. Parties are part of the college experience.











I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant




HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011
Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011
Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011
Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011
  Send a message via AIM to Aletheia*  
  (#7 (permalink)) Old
Dream Offline
Member
Experienced TeenHelper
******
 
Dream's Avatar
 
Gender: Male

Posts: 723
Join Date: January 8th 2009

Re: Univeristy - November 27th 2011, 05:48 PM

Yes, parties are completely normal. Just because it is a drinking party, even with a keg, doesn't mean people are there just to hook up (although there are some parties where that is definitely the case).
   
  (#8 (permalink)) Old
Chris. Online
Live Help Operator

I've been here a while
********
 
Chris.'s Avatar
 
Name: Chris
Age: 17
Gender: Male
Location: Illinios

Posts: 1,864
Join Date: November 28th 2011

Re: Univeristy - November 28th 2011, 10:22 PM

Yes, it is perfectly normal for him to go out and party. Really it comes down to the trust factor. You need to realize that you can control him going to parties or anything like that, so really all you have is trust.


Chris Jackson

“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.”
   
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Tags
parties, univeristy

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off





All material copyright ©1998-2012, TeenHelp Inc. All rights reserved.
TeenHelp Inc. is a registered 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organisation in the United States of America.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.