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what to do with guy who toys with my emotions -
December 5th 2011, 03:24 PM
what do i do about a guy im in love with but cant commit in a dating relationship. He says he doesnt like me anymore but i don't believe it cos he still contacts me. How can i move on? or should i not
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Re: what to do with guy who toys with my emotions -
December 5th 2011, 03:26 PM
Move on, he's not worth your time. You've got all the time in the world to find someone who's willing to do anything for you, that you love more than this guy, trust me.
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Re: what to do with guy who toys with my emotions -
December 5th 2011, 04:53 PM
Move on.
It seems like he's keeping you on a 'hook' so to speak. It's keeping someone around until something better comes along, and if it doesn't then he'll decide he wants you again. I'd save yourself a lot of trouble and heartache and just stop talking to him. You'll find someone else who really appreciates who you are and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Keep hope [: "Life is pain, anybody that says different is selling something" ~ Fezzik's Mother, The Princess Bride. ♥ "To die, would be an awfully big adventure."~ Peter Pan "Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumoured by many. Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it." ~ The Buddha 14-04-2010. R.R <3 |
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Re: what to do with guy who toys with my emotions -
December 5th 2011, 06:04 PM
Did you consider that he might just be looking for a friendship?
Friends contact each other all the time, that doesn't mean that he still likes you. And, I seriously doubt that he's toying with your emotions. It doesn't even seem like this in the slightest. Move on. If you need help doing so, don't talk to him anymore.   I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011 Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011 Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011 Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011 |
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Re: what to do with guy who toys with my emotions -
December 5th 2011, 11:40 PM
I agree with Shannon, I think he is looking for friendship. If he is still contacting you, then he does want to still have some association with you, but if he says he doesn't like you then its most likely just to be friends.
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Re: what to do with guy who toys with my emotions -
December 6th 2011, 09:11 PM
I think that he is keeping you on the line. What does that mean? That means that he knows you like him, or even love him - and he wants to keep you around to satisfy his own needs. Let me guess, he texts you every once in awhile when you guys haven't talked in a few days? He keeps coming back after you finally think its over? If you said yes to those, then he is just keeping you on the sidelines as an option. Don't make him your priority. I agree with some of the others by saying its you best bet to move on, and not talk to him anymore.
Why cant we just be friends? Why move on? Well this is because you obviously like him, and if you stay around someone that you like, and he has made it clear he does not like you back then why hurt yourself and punish yourself by staying around him? In a case similar to this one, 95% of the time the feelings wont go away - in some cases they may get worse. Best wishes, Chris Chris
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