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Is this wrong? - December 12th 2011, 09:56 PM

This girl I like told me that she and her girlfriend broke up and I feel kinda bad that they broke up but I'm so HAPPY.
   
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Re: Is this wrong? - December 12th 2011, 10:33 PM

No it isn't wrong. Its how life goes isn't it?
   
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Re: Is this wrong? - December 13th 2011, 02:17 AM

No, don't feel too bad about it. If you like them, you like them.


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Re: Is this wrong? - December 13th 2011, 03:33 PM

I would'nt feel bad. You have your own feelings regardless of the breakup between her and someone else.
   
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Re: Is this wrong? - December 13th 2011, 04:31 PM

I wouldn't feel bad, but don't express your feelings about it. This girl may not like that you're so majorly happy that they've broken up, therefore ruining any chances you might have had of being with her. Just keep those feelings inside, and help her get through this hard time.











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Re: Is this wrong? - December 13th 2011, 09:25 PM

You shouldn't feel bad, I'm assuming it wasn't your fault, these things happen so you shouldn't feel bad that they broke up but as said, I wouldn't express your happiness about it but it could ruin any chance of getting with the girl you like.
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Re: Is this wrong? - December 14th 2011, 01:02 AM

My personal feelings on this, I don't think that it is wrong for you to feel happy that they broke up. Its not like you broke them up or anything; they decided to split up on there own. So there is not reason to feel bad about being happy that they went there own ways.

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Re: Is this wrong? - December 14th 2011, 01:54 AM

I don't think that it is wrong of you to be happy. To be honest, I probably would be happy too if my crushes' relationships ended. You just have to keep it inside so she doesn't get upset with you, is all!


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Re: Is this wrong? - December 14th 2011, 08:39 AM

Hey, your feelings are still your feelings, and they are valid no matter what. I don't think it's right to be happy about this. You like someone and they are now available. Of course you'd feel happy.


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