cheating wut is it exactly

[xyzman]

so some of u may have read other posts of mine and know im in a relachin ship and all but thars this other girl wellidk if im cheating or just harmlis fun but ya we have been sort of flurting and she has sent me some pics and idk if its juat harmles or cheating


and idk just sort of poped in to my head whiell tiping this but i do wunt to do thangs with her and just thot if i did wud the temptashin stop or becum wors

[Aletheia*]

Cheating is going to vary from person to person. Cheating to me is kissing & above. ANYTHING sexual is considered cheating to me. I don't mind if my boyfriend flirts with other girls. He's an unconscious flirter, meaning he doesn't realize he's doing it until it's brought to his attention. At the end of the day, I know who he's going home with: ME! So, harmless flirting is okay.

But, the thing you need to consider is your girlfriend. How do you think she'd feel if she finds those photos? Or finds out you've been flirting with this girl? How would you feel if your girlfriend was flirting and sending photo's to another guy? You only look at one aspect, yours. Take into consideration how your girlfriend would feel, or how you'd feel if the situation were reversed.

[Toz]

Cheating can be done knowing and unkowingly. Like the above said, it's different for everyone. A good gauge, though, is asking how you would feel if your significant other was doing this with another person.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

I consider cheating to be anything intimate that you're doing with any person besides your significant other.

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by Sincerely Yours

I consider cheating to be anything intimate that you're doing with any person besides your significant other.

This is the same for me, also including sending any pictures you wouldn't send to one of your friends

[snoogums]

different people have different opinions on what cheating is. Thinking about cheating or thinking about flirting is not so bad as long as you don't follow through although if you are thinking it you may want to reconsider your relationship. In my opinion though flirting with other people or talking dirty with other people or exchanging dirty pics is all considered minor cheating.

[Maloo]

In my eyes, what you did isn't harmless fun at all. It's not okay.

[Le bonheur*]

In my eyes: I believe that cheating is sending/receiving inappropriate pictures, of course - having sex/being intimate with someone other than your significant other, and being completely devoted to someone else emotionally.

If you're not happy in the relationship, leave. Don't hurt your partner by cheating. You can have your 'harmless' fun while you're NOT in a relationship.

But hey, that's just my opinion.

[ScreamKatesName]

I believe that if you're flirting with someone other than your girlfriend, and sending pictures to them, there's nothing technically wrong with it, because you're not doing anything other than talking. Morally though, it's wrong. I think that if you don't love your girlfriend enough to not flirt with other girls and stuff, you shouldn't be with her, you should be single and free to do what you please. I know that when I have a boyfriend and he flirts with someone else, I get upset, not because he's flirting, but because it shows me that he's still looking at other girls "that way". I think that you should either choose from being single, and able to flirt with who ever, whenever, or in your relationship, and reserved to her, without any flirting with other girls. It also gives the wrong idea to the girl you're flirting with, especially if she doesn't know if you have a girlfriend. I think that worst case, you should talk to your girlfriend and ask her how she feels about it.

[Ambiance]

I don't think this is okay, I don't honestly think you care about your girlfriend very much either.

[TheBabyEater]

I personally consider flirting as cheating. And I think a lot of girls consider pictures (in a sexual way, like sexting) as cheating. If you care about your girl, maybe you should stop in case she has a problem with it