Why the f*ck are asian girls so perfect?

[theawesomeman]

Ok im a white guy with white parents and ive always loved asians. If i see a white girl or mexican or black girl walking by nothing happens. But, if i even see a glimpse of an asian girl i get an imediate erection. When i see a girl of any other race that other guys say that shes beautiful she dosent look that pretty to me. When i see any asian girl no matter what, she looks like a perfect angel. Perfect ass not to big not to small perfect boobs there not normally huge but they have perfect shape and seem to say im perfect come f*ck me. The hips are alot bigger than any other race i <3 that so much the bigger the hips the better. The body shape so skinny but not to skinny (why arent all asian girls models). And dont get me started on the face perfect size and shape big lips small nose and beautiful squinting eyes that look like amazing pools of blue trapped in the worlds perfect girl. The skin is the softest like a living cloud and even better all asians look perfectly tanned golden skin that looks like they just came out of getting tanned every day. They always act like they want to have sex even when they dont. There hair is so smooth and dark black.

My point is that they are PERFECT. Is it normal to like them more than any other race even my own. If there are any other guys who feel the same way can you explain what you think about them and why. And girls do you feel like asians get more or less attention than you and asians what do you feel about that. Is this normal.

[PlayingPretend]

Honestly, I feel like everyone has a preference. I know of a woman, for example, who is white, but she'll only date black men; she really has no attraction towards any other race. Where I feel it's more typical for most people to end up dating someone within their same race, there are exceptions, else we'd never have multi-racial couples. As for me, no, I don't feel like asian women get more attention than I do. I used to have a friend who loved asian women and was extremely turned on by them, but it's not like I become lost to someone's vision if an asian walks past.

[Chris.]

I agree. I think we all have a preference on who we are attracted to and who gets our hormones going the most.

I also know a girl who is white but only dates black males. My uncle, only dates Mexican girls. I have my own preference as well, though I'm not going to go into that. So we all are attracted to different races just like we all look for certain things on a person.

Its all normal.

Best wishes,
Chris

[Squiggly]

Personally I think that Asian people look a lot more alike each other than white people . Everyone has their preference though. I prefer white skinny guys I don't like muscles

[Aletheia*]

It's your preference. It's normal for you. I'm white, and I've only dated within my race because that's what I'm attracted too. You have what your attracted to. It doesn't make you weird.

[Akito]

I'm nearly half Asian (three eighths), and I don't feel like I get more or less attention than other girls in general, whatever their race. As Shannon wrote, it's your preference, so it's perfectly normal for you.

[theawesomeman]

Yes but ive heard no one say that they like people outside of there own race. It makes me wonder if im very alone in liking other races.

[Angel]

Originally Posted by theawesomeman

Yes but ive heard no one say that they like people outside of there own race. It makes me wonder if im very alone in liking other races.

You're not alone in this sentiment. I find myself attracted to those outside of my ethnic group and culture.

While I cannot agree with many of the point made in the first post, it's completely understandable for one to have a particular affinity for certain people and looks.

[Revolution]

I think it's normal to have a preference. For me, I wouldn't say its race, but I like creative, artistic, smart guys, and every guy I've ever fallen for played music. I think for you, you have a particular thing with Asian girls. Nothing wrong with it. I wish you well on finding somebody with the race you so enjoy, and a nice person to back it up.

[Work_In_Progress]

There are a lot of different reasons as to why some people prefer someone of their own racial background and others liking the idea of dating someone outside of their own race. It could be simply more aesthetically pleasing to you to like one type of race than the other, a fetish or the experiences in life that you've encountered(meeting other people from different backgrounds) that make their personality or way of life more appealing than the girls/guys that live around you.

Being at a university where there the race types are virtually equal, you see a few multi-racial couples, but there are quite a few people who are scared or nervous of the idea of dating someone that looks different and acts different than you. They can't seem to grasp the idea that it could work out and that there are too many uncertainties. Most people at my university they're either an international student and it's their first time outside of their home country, or people from my city coming into university and it is their first time being among and interacting with people from different cultures.

Whichever your reasons for preferring girls that are of Asian background, don't worry about feeling different, it's more common than you think and you will discover that as your get older.

Until a month and a half ago, I used to be dating a girl from China. And trust me, the reason we did not work out wasn't because she's from China and I'm from Canada. It was her personality and her excessive insecurities and that she was a little too immature even though we are of the same age. Dating someone and making friends from another cultural background made me realize that girls and guys from my country and from other countries are bottom-line not that much different.

Don't ever be scared or nervous to explore relationships with other races. Regardless of who you choose there will be ups and downs just like if you were dating someone within your own race. If you find an Asian girl and you find her attractive, then go for it, it's not any different than a white guy/white girl, black guy/black girl, etc.

[theawesomeman]

yes but what if you come from a VERY racist family

[theawesomeman]

Ok should i ask her out yes or no? and why?

[Work_In_Progress]

There may be some complications when dating someone from a different racial background depending on your familial and social environment. That comes with the territory. If you have some genuine feelings for this girl after getting to know her for a bit, the go for it. It may be that you'll have to keep it a secret from your parents for awhile and then break it to them... But I do hope that someone else can confirm or improve the piece of advice I just gave you.

My final word for this post; I wish you luck in not getting friend zoned

[Childish Giggle]

Originally Posted by theawesomeman

yes but what if you come from a VERY racist family

DO you have any idea what your post just did to me?! I mean honestly, if I ever hear a racist comment about me being Asian (I am 10000% Asian), I am going to look at that person and grin like a maniac because your post will come to my mind! Its like you described every bit of out features in such a dreamy way! And your tone! SO frustrated and aggressive!! xD If anyone comments about it EVER in my life, I swear I'll remember what nice things you said about it and laugh at that person, the joke will be on them!
Though I have always ignored my aunts and relatives going "HAyyyeee WHat happened to your complexion" after a summer of swimming, I am gonna take pride now in the fact that I got an awesome tan! And look at them and think, They are missing sooo much! Your post has increased my self confidence! Now instead of ignoring the comments on my looks,tan or anything else, I am going to take pride in them!

[theawesomeman]

Thank you Pisces your welcome. Does anyone know how to get your family to accept a person of different race? Mabye even how to show them that they are just like us? I really need help with this.

[theawesomeman]

If anyone has past experience with this please tell me what you did step by step.

[JKmadu619]

Everyone has likes/dislikes with appearance.

It might sound a little bit racist, but not strange.

I for one am generally attracted to my own race, but that's not to say there are no exceptions to the rule.

Seeing as your 13, you may grow out of this as you get older. If you do not, it's not a huge deal.

Heck you might even have an Aisian person fetish, but again that is normal.

- Justin

[Pelios]

Each to its own, personally I’m not attractive to Asian boys at all I prefer Mexicans or Latin Americans but there is nothing wrong with that. I think you should first get to know her before asking her out. Do you two go to the same school? Or from where do you know her from? Take the first step and talk to her.
Good Luck.

[theawesomeman]

to Pelios we go to the same school. And if antone here dates people outside of there own race and has racist family please let me know step by step how you delt with it.

[Childish Giggle]

I haven't been in such a situation, but one thing that I can tell you that convincing yours or her parents will take a very long time. You'll need a lot of patience and trust. You and your girlfriend will have to have immense faith and trust in each other. There will be times when you'd want to just give up and you know maybe run away with her somewhere far away from everyone else. But honestly, that won't give the amount of happiness that you'l get from living around people who love you and being with her with their acceptance. There will be lots of ups and downs. Times when it you'll feel that it is totally impossible and want to give up. They key here is to keep going and not giving up! Take one step at a time. Get the support of someone who will accept it. Then try to convince one person at the time starting with someone who you think will be easier to convince. Basically you have to make that person get to know your girlfriend. So that they realize that yeah, she are just like them. For this she will be the one making most efforts. Like doing something to be around that member of the family, something that helps her spend time with that person and do some little for them.
Just remember to rejoice the little achievements and not lose your will when you fail!